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Problem with neighbours feeding wildlife

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sazz1 Sat 12-Oct-19 11:47:59

Thanks for the replies I shall say nothing and hope she realises what the food is attracting.

Sara65 Sat 12-Oct-19 11:47:53

This is tricky, I agree it may be best to say nothing, but it maybe better if you had a word, as you obviously know her quite well, rather than for her to be on bad terms with her new neighbors from the off, let’s face it, it’s unlikely they’re going to be rat lovers.

cornergran Sat 12-Oct-19 11:47:30

I'd keep quiet too. If I were staying I might just chat one day and ask if she'd seen any rats in her garden, so a bit of a hint but I wouldn't challenge her at this point. As you're moving then say nothing, her new neighbours will work out for themselves what is right for them to do. Good luck with the move, hope all goes well.

Hetty58 Sat 12-Oct-19 11:42:20

sazz1, I'd say nothing. Although you think it's unwise to feed them (and I agree) she has every right to do so!

Greenfinch Sat 12-Oct-19 11:42:02

There are rats all round whether people feed wildlife or not. Say nothing.It would be very upsetting for her if you did.

whywhywhy Sat 12-Oct-19 11:38:49

If feeding these animals gives her comfort and you are moving then I might be tempted to say nothing.

lemongrove Sat 12-Oct-19 11:38:33

I wouldn’t say anything at all.It could come back at you regards having words with a neighbour when you are selling your house.You could be asked if you had known there was a vermin problem!
You also don’t want to upset your neighbour just before you leave there.
Good luck in your new house.smile

Luckygirl Sat 12-Oct-19 11:34:42

I should say nowt - you are moving; and who knows the new person might not be as worried about the odd rat as you are.

sazz1 Sat 12-Oct-19 11:12:15

I have a lovely elderly neighbour next door who lost her OH a few months ago. She told me she was feeding a couple of hedgehogs and then saw a badger coming in her back garden. The last few weeks she has put food and water outside her back door each night. We looked out last night and a fox and badger were making a lot of noise out there having a stand off over the food. But even worse I saw a rat dissapear into our fusha bush a few nights ago. Every time I let our dogs out at night they are barking and jumping at her fence obviously at the fox, badger and rats. How can I tell her it's not a good idea as it's attracting rats? Really don't want to upset her. We're moving in a few weeks but don't want to leave this problem for new house owner. Thanks.