Pub at Christmas

My husband has never been to the pub on Christmas day, but he regularly visited his folks Christmas day morning when they were alive, taking our daughter with him. I quite enjoyed the time to prepare the meal in peace and it wouldn't bother me if this year he decided to go to the pub.

Northerner here, dad never did

One of our local swimming pools opens on Christmas Day for a couple of hours - great way for the kids to let off steam and work up an appetite whilst the big lunch is cooked in peace ?

When i was a child our family all went to my Grandmothers house for chrismas day. The men all went to the pub whilst the women did the lunch. We all sat down to eat when they
came home.
My own family have never followed the tradition but once, when we went to my sons home for christmas, we prepared the dinner then all went to the pub together. When we got back we all mucked in to get the dinner on the table. It was the best christmas i've ever had (as an adult). I usually get very stressed trying to get it all on the table but that year i was completely chilled, i loved it.

kitty ??

If all 20 of my family come for Christmas, as looks likely, I will insist that at least some of them go to the pub! And hopefully eat there too!

When I was a child all the menfolk went to the pub on a Christmas Day, leaving the women to do all the lunch preparations. It was something that always happened, and was always accepted by all.

Never happened in my childhood home and never in my own.

My dad apparently used to go down the pub with his brothers on Christmas Eve - as he didn't drink otherwise, came home worse the wear a few times apparently.
Here the pubs are really only open for those that are actually having their Christmas lunch at the pub .

Our son is a chef in a pub. He would love just one Xmas day off but knows that to shut the pub is not allowed due to demand!! So he will open 10-2:00 then close and have the rest of the day off.

My fil was a londoner and xmas was always a drink in the pub before lunch. My dh used to go with him and i was left at home with mil. They came every xmas and after three xmases of them pubbing i suggested us going with them. My dh was all for it but mil was horrified. I went and did so for several years until fil died then my husband and i stayed home

Northern lass here, but my dad and grandad never went to the pub on Christmas Day. My ex-husband did, with his brother, and used to come back very much worse for wear. That's one reason why he became my ex!

Tedber.
I agree.We are all different with different traditions and possibly circumstances out of our control. I can never recall as a child not having to wait until my father came home from the pub before we all sat down to our traditional xmas day lunch. I married a man for who working on xmas day was frequently unavoidable and part and parcel of his work.This would mean our traditional lunch time xmas meal took place of an evening or put on hold until the following day.

Growing up in London it wa never a thing but down here in the SW its a village thing, everyone goes even if just for half an hour, the landlord gives everyone a drink, sherry or whiskey, we greet long lost relatives home for the holidays, students, neighbours then wander home to eat lunch.

My dad always worked on Christmas day, and Christmas was not really celebrated in my mum and dads until they had Grandchildren then they went to my sisters home or mine for Christmas.

My former husband,two sons,neighbour’s husband and two sons went to the pub on Christmas Day.
Great idea.
I was far happier doing everything myself in the kitchen.

When I had left home to go to uni, it became a bit of a tradition to meet up in the pub on Christmas morning with old school pals. My parents didn't really approve, so insisted that we go somewhere where we were unlikely to be recognised Mum used to say "What will people think of you?" In my adult family life, several families of friends, including children and student AC returning home for Christmas, would meet in our local in our country town. I guess times had changed, and what my parents found unacceptable had become acceptable.

Its not something my Dad ever did and my husband is the same! And actually husband does the cooling anyway (although we eat in the evening)

Tedber

Same as you. Who cares???

I wish my ex- husband had gone to the pub on Christmas morning, it might have made him more cheerful......

Is this any different than going to Church all Xmas day morning? I still had to do all the cooking

BradfordLass the smell of Will’s Whiffs ( ! What a name)
Was a Christmas scent, along with tangerines.

It was never a tradition in my family when I was younger though I did know of families where it was.

My son visited from Australia a few years ago and we decided to go to the pub before dinner just for a change. After one too many sherries I rushed home to find my expensive turkey had dried almost to a crisp.

Never again!

It happens in our village. I go to the pub as MIL and sisters cook. We usually get a free drink on Christmas Day. We go 12-2pm then back to help and then eat.

I worked in our local pub and loved working Christmas Day. The pub would be packed to the rafters with men, and women, all dressed up and jovial. We only opened for 2 hours and we were very strict about chucking everybody out at 2pm so we could have our Christmas dinner . It was too busy for anybody to get to the bar so no chance of getting drunk!
I met DP when he came to the pub as a temporary manager. I warned him about Christmas Day and that he would need lots of staff. We opened at 12pm to just a couple of people. DP asked where everybody was? By 12.15 there wasn't an inch of space!