It is a dilemma isn’t it But as you’ve spent the last 16 years with one child I personally would think it’s time you were with the other one and what a good opportunity to have someone to travel with to see your sister
Can you not have new year with your older son and family
There’s no point going if you’re going to be miserable but what is there to be miserable about Two loving sons
Has your younger son never spent Christmas with you at your older sons Christmas celebrations over the last 16 years what does he usually do ?
Soops kitchen, a place of reflection, refuge and at times revelry.
