I'm 63 and my mum buys me things as presents - this year I had to tell her that I didn't like what she'd bought for my birthday. The colour was nice but it was a turtle neck jumper from M&S, quite 'old lady'ish and the neck felt like someone was strangling me!!! I know she was offended but I did tell her tactfully. She then complained to me over Christmas that my brother and SiL kept buying her jumpers in a size too big. When I suggested she should say something she said she couldn't as they'd be offended!
Really! If something isn't right for you as long as it's done tactfully surely it's not wrong to say so? the giver would be far more offended if you just put it away and didn't wear it!
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