I've been posting for about 3 years now, and on the whole, find it enjoyable and informative. I can understand why some new posters might think it can be a bit cliquey, but to be honest, I think it's more a case of regular posters get to know each other and if you continue posting too, you'll get to be recognised too. (Nannaandgrampy is saying similar, I think).
I'm sorry to read that you felt you met with a tirade of abuse when you first joined, Grandad1943 - that's just bad manners, and well done for continuing to post. Perhaps it is time for the logo to be re-looked at, as it does only show female silhouettes, along with a baby, which might be off putting. It looks quite unappealing, really.
I'm so glad that you came back too, marydoll - your posts on the GM thread often have me in stitches!
I suppose it is inevitable that there is always going to be a wide range of opinions and personalities, which is, of course, a good thing, but a dose of kindness and respect does go a long way.