How very sad if people are expected to cover their plates nowadays. My DC have had very different weddings, from a castle to a barn to a very basic registry office. They’ve been appreciative of (and thanked people properly for) any gifts given, whatever the cost, and I haven’t noticed that one has got more than another because they’ve chosen a more lavish celebration. Guests have been invited because they wanted them there to share the day, not because of what they can give.
Perhaps some people should just set up a payment kiosk at the door of the venue and have done with it?
Another silly little ABC game - shops we have loved and lost?
What is a reasonable minimum spend for an online grocery delivery??