Perfume is such a personal thing isn't it? None particularly remind me of 'old ladies. Recently I've found nothing really lasts, more than frustrating. One trick that works for me is to spray some on a tissue, one third tucked in each sleeve, the final third in my bra. Currently using L'Occitane Terre de Lumiere and Oscar by Oscar de la Renata. I love First by Van Cleef and Arpels, haven't had any for a while though. There used to be an Outlet store near us that sold 4ml bottles for £1, really useful for trial and error but sadly closed now.