Apologies for a long “copy and paste” but the DT often hides most of an article behind a firewall. I think it addresses many of our underlying fears about going out and about beyond the immediate “comfort zone” And why many of us are even finding it hard to summon up the energy or desire to do the things we have been prevented from doing by lockdown
Since restrictions eased, we’ve been encouraged to get out and about more, and we’ve even been offered incentives to do so. Despite this, many people are staying at home
A recent survey by Ipsos MORI on behalf of King’s College London concluded the public are still sticking to earlier “stay home” advice “to an extraordinary degree”. Forty-one per cent of the 2,254 UK residents surveyed said they’d not left home during five or more of the previous seven days, and one in seven hadn’t left home at all during the past week.
Fifty-two per cent said their greatest concern was fear of contracting Covid-19, more so than the threat to the economy; while 50 per cent thought it acceptable to home-school children until a vaccine is available. The poll is dated late May, so figures may have changed over the summer. None the less, it’s clear that fear is keeping many of us at home .
In a paper just published in The Lancet, Prof Edgar Jones at King’s College London draws parallels between the threat posed by Covid-19 and the aerial bombings during the Second World War, as both of these events exposed civilians to sustained dread.
In both cases, people downplayed the threat initially, then when things escalated they retreated to the safety of their homes – and during the Blitz this was despite availability of deep shelters which were considered safer. Jones refers to a “deep psychological sense of being protected at home” in both situations .
When we endure a continuing threat, why do we feel such a powerful desire to stay at home, even if logic tells us that’s not necessarily the safest or best option?
Your home is an important source of reassurance and self-expression. Enjoy these qualities, but don’t allow them to swamp your logic. Balance time at home with time going out safely. The latter will develop your self-confidence and sense of agency, while the former offers safety, identity and security.
I particularly identify with the final paragraph but it can be a struggle.