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So, how much (roughly) ) is "a drink"?

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phoenix Sat 05-Sept-20 14:32:24

Hello all,

A neighbour who is quite handy with a chainsaw, has offered to deal with the invading hedgerow at the bottom of the garden for "a drink" as long as he can have any wood suitable for his open fire.

Fair enough, but what, these days constitutes " a drink"? Is it £20, £50? I don't want to insult him, but neither do I want to over pay!

Confused of North Devon

Shropshirelass Wed 09-Sept-20 09:46:32

I think £20 is a nice drink. I wouldn't give any more than that.

NotSpaghetti Mon 07-Sept-20 00:35:30

Please check if he will be removing all the offcuts!

Greciangirl Sun 06-Sept-20 20:30:15

Yes, £20 seems reasonable.

Juicylucy Sun 06-Sept-20 19:39:32

It’s definitely money not cans of beer. It depends how long it will take him if it’s about an hour I’d say £20, if it’s all morning I’d say £40 whole day £100. That’s what my sil gets when he does these sort of jobs to help out neighbours and asks for a drink. It’s just a phrase, it doesn’t actually mean a drink, as some are saying.

Saggi Sun 06-Sept-20 15:51:35

Find out what beer he likes and buy him a case ( approx £20-£25). Think it’s worth that. If he prefers wine ...3/4 bottles. Whiskey ... bottle of malt!

Jillybird Sun 06-Sept-20 15:34:03

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ElaineI Sun 06-Sept-20 13:22:10

£20 sounds reasonable. I have never heard of £20 being referred to as "a drink".

Lulubelle500 Sun 06-Sept-20 12:57:57

Perhaps he wants you to take him out for a drink!

H1954 Sun 06-Sept-20 12:48:05

I would ask him what his tipple is. If it's a spirit just get one bottle, if it's beer make sure you know what sort as there is so much variety. Then, I would get maybe a dozen cans/bottles and some snacks, nuts, crisps etc and make a nice hamper out of it. He can enjoy it with his bubble of drinking mates. You do have to bear in mind that his equipment has to be purchased and maintained so a couple of quid wouldn't really be fair.

Boolya Sun 06-Sept-20 12:43:03

Maybe just casually ask what is the tipple of choice. Whiskey would be a waste of money here, but wine ...... !

Rumbabba Sun 06-Sept-20 12:37:29

£20 is a fair price, as after all, he’ll be getting the wood for free...which would have cost him had he’d gone out to buy some.

Buttonjugs Sun 06-Sept-20 12:00:03

I pay my gardener £20 and he does everything in an hour. I would be inclined to think if it was a neighbourly thing it would be less than this. Otherwise you may just as well hire a gardener! A nice bottle of wine should suffice.

lizzypopbottle Sun 06-Sept-20 11:51:44

I looked up 'going rate for odd job man' and it was £20-£30 per hour, with the higher end likely in London. That was mybuilder.com and dated 2020. Hope that's helpful.

Aepgirl Sun 06-Sept-20 11:36:24

I’d opt for a nice bottle of wine (or 2).

Bazza Sun 06-Sept-20 11:00:10

It really does depend how long it takes, and how much wood he gets out of it. I’d have a go at pinning him down.

janeainsworth Sun 06-Sept-20 10:32:32

This scenario has all the potential for a classic falling-out.
1. Make him state clearly what he wants in lieu of payment before he starts.
2. As ns says, be clear about who’s going to deal with the wood that he doesn’t want. I wouldn’t have thought hedge trimmings were much use for wood stoves.

What is a fair payment is dependent on how long it will take him.

NotSpaghetti Sun 06-Sept-20 10:19:19

Just re-read your original message... as long as he can have any wood suitable for his open fire....
Will he expect you to deal with the messy bits???
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NotSpaghetti Sun 06-Sept-20 10:15:04

Actually Chewbacca that's a good point, I've had that happen with a neighbour too...

NotSpaghetti Sun 06-Sept-20 10:13:10

I'd say £30 if its tidy.
You would spend that on a middling whisky. We have someone who does our hedging once a year who's a professional but not on the expensive end of things (quotes from some others have been horrendous!). He would want £20 an hour working alone.

Nortsat Sun 06-Sept-20 10:03:52

I was also going to say £20, if it’s a sizeable job.

A small job ... then £10.

Moggycuddler Sun 06-Sept-20 09:59:24

Just get chatting a bit and say "You said you'd be happy to do this for a drink - so, what is it that you like to drink?" Nothing awkward about that. Then either buy him what he drinks, a bottle, or a pack of cans. Or give him in cash the equivalent to buy what he wants himself.

Chewbacca Sun 06-Sept-20 09:55:16

Whilst trimming his own side of the hedge, my neighbour offered to do my side too. I offered him £20 and a bottle of wine. He refused the £20 but accepted the wine. So £20 would seem a reasonable offer, as others have suggested.

Urmstongran Sun 06-Sept-20 09:53:37

I’d say a tenner would buy him a couple of pints in a pub. But I’d pass him £20.
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Molli Sun 06-Sept-20 09:51:03

Just asked my DH and he said £20 max as he is getting the wood. DH does this sort of thing sometimes and is happy to accept a bottle of wine or a few bottles of local beer instead.

FlexibleFriend Sat 05-Sept-20 16:43:29

A drink is £20.