autumnsun DH used to say to me when I was anxious about DC:
"You can take a horse to water but you can't make it drink"
It may be a cliché but it's true.
Yes, praise the positives and if he wants some new device or game etc then encourage him to earn his pocket money to put towards it.
Lack of public toilets in towns.
Passports not in the drawer I always keep them in. Turning the place upside down.