If you are lucky enough to have the sort of children who breeze through adolescence without the disruption of hormone swings, or the blood sugar issues like nana8 's DD, then it is simply that, pure luck. I've seen many parents and families during my career who had one or more problem children, the parents were often caring, often disciplinarians, often excellent role models, that didn't stop them being driven to distraction by their children. Crowing about how good you are as a famly helps no one. If you haven't experienced it you won't understand, so perhaps the best thing you can do is keep quiet.
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