It’s horrible isn’t it? I remember boys using it a lot when I was in my mid teens, ( so mid seventies), perhaps more than the F word. Then it seemed to disappear. Now it’s back again.
To our surprise...we’ve only lately learnt, that ‘ t..t, tw.t and t.ot’, ( hope you follow that,) mean the same. I called someone a t.at in front of my DIL, and she went very red. My son said, ‘ mum, you can’t say that, it means the same as c..t’.
I looked all this up, and while they still do mean an idiot....in America, it’s female genitalia. So we all have to follow what the Americans do. I’m assuming it’s still ok to talk about ‘ rubbers’ with our grandchildren!!, and not be told off for talking about Eurex!!.
My husband always says they are just words initially. It’s the meaning behind them that’s the problem. To me they just sound horrible. I’d have been upset too Atqui.