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Going one better?

(33 Posts)
SueDonim Fri 11-Feb-22 15:14:34

That’s known in this house as Black Catting.

‘I saw a black cat.’

‘I saw a cat that was blacker.’ hmm

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 11-Feb-22 15:02:25

It would drive me mad. I’d keep her in the ‘acquaintance’ category.

Bridgeit Fri 11-Feb-22 15:02:08

I don’t know if it has a ‘name or a term’ but it is quite tiresome & tiring to deal with . Does this person have redeeming traits that outweigh this annoying one. ?Best wishes

OnwardandUpward Fri 11-Feb-22 14:59:54

LOL thanks. Yes I think she might have been to Elevenerife!

Not sure if it's a red flag as far as friendships go?

Beechnut Fri 11-Feb-22 14:55:41

Lucca

If you’ve been Tenerife she’s been to Elevenerife…?

I love that one Lucca
Aren’t people who do that also called ‘toppers’ ?

Lucca Fri 11-Feb-22 14:52:15

She’s being a Judith Two Sheds …

Lucca Fri 11-Feb-22 14:51:34

If you’ve been Tenerife she’s been to Elevenerife…?

OnwardandUpward Fri 11-Feb-22 14:50:08

What's it called when you say you're tired, but the other person has to say they are exhausted? Or if you say you need to be up early, they have to be up at 5am AND do all their housework before leaving?

I have a new friend who, if I say anything always has to go one better. I'm trying to gauge if it's a red flag, or what it means? I've never met anyone where it's so obvious before.