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DDIL doesn't use the clothes I buy for DGD

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GrannyBL Thu 23-Jun-22 21:28:18

I have purchased many adorable (and not cheap) outfits for my grandbaby who is 4 mos. old. I told my DIL, the very first time I bought something, to please tell me if she didn't like something and I would take it back. I told her it wouldn't hurt my feelings at all and that I would rather spend money on things she liked and would use than waste my money. She has never told me she didn't like anything, but have only seen DGD in a very few things I have bought her. Several things she just let her outgrow, never using them once. It is upsetting to me, so I have decided to not buy DGD any more clothes. Am I wrong?

StarDreamer Sat 02-Jul-22 12:11:23

I do hope that you won't let this lead to a family row with your DDIL.