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Cabbie21 Thu 27-Apr-23 22:40:52

About what to do immediately after my DH sadly dies this coming night.
Sorry to be blunt. I want to be practical before we reach the inevitable. Please don't join in if you find this upsetting.
I am writing here because everyone else in my family will be asleep when the inevitable happens.

Sorchame Fri 28-Apr-23 11:06:56

So sorry for your loss Cabbie

DamaskRose Fri 28-Apr-23 11:10:29

So sorry for your loss Cabbie flowers

rjack Fri 28-Apr-23 11:20:28

So very sorry to hear your sad news. Thoughts are with you. Passing in hospital can be a very different experience than passing at home.xx

lixy Fri 28-Apr-23 11:24:29

Oh Cabbie, so sorry to hear this. Take care.

mamaa Fri 28-Apr-23 11:34:39

Sincere condolences to you and your family Cabbie, so sorry for your loss. flowers

Shelflife Fri 28-Apr-23 11:59:03

Cabbie 21 ,my sympathy is with you. A tough time indeed. Hope contacting GN gave a little comfort, thinking of you ๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน

Shelflife Fri 28-Apr-23 12:04:23

Oh Cabbie , you have had a tough time. My sympathy is with you and I hope contacting GN gave you a little comfort. Thinking of you ๐ŸŒน๐ŸŒน

Ziplok Fri 28-Apr-23 12:05:07

Condolences to you and your family Cabbie21 ๐Ÿ’

SachaMac Fri 28-Apr-23 13:14:35

Sending thoughts and condolences Cabbieflowers I have been in your shoes, itโ€™s very hard. My advice would be just take time to absorb all thatโ€™s happened, accept any help offered and try to look after yourself.

maddyone Fri 28-Apr-23 13:20:42

Cabbie flowers

Oldbat1 Fri 28-Apr-23 13:35:06

So sorry to read of your Dh death. flowers

Wheniwasyourage Fri 28-Apr-23 14:19:55

Sending condolences to you, Cabbie21 ๐Ÿ’

Romola Fri 28-Apr-23 14:36:41

Please accept my sympathy. I went through this nearly 7 months ago.
Gransnet has been such a source of consolation. Come back soon!

Nana56 Fri 28-Apr-23 18:13:35

So sorry for your lossflowers

CanadianGran Fri 28-Apr-23 18:24:23

So sorry for your loss, condolences to you and your family.flowers

Kim19 Fri 28-Apr-23 18:41:17

Thanks for turning to us for support, Cabbie, and for being kind enough to share with us. Sincere condolences ๐ŸŒท

Kalu Fri 28-Apr-23 19:08:59

So sorry to read your sad news Cabbie. Sending heartfelt condolences to you. ๐Ÿ’

LauraNorderr Fri 28-Apr-23 19:21:58

Wrapping a soft warm Gransnet blanket around you Cabbie and holding you tight.

Chrissielou Fri 28-Apr-23 19:28:47

Thinking of you and your family at this terribly sad time.

Doodle Fri 28-Apr-23 20:46:23

Cabnie so sorry for you and your stepdaughter. In my prayers. flowers

Joane123 Fri 28-Apr-23 20:50:31

So sorry Cabbie flowers

SueDonim Fri 28-Apr-23 21:02:21

Iโ€™m so sorry, Cabbie. Thinking of you and your family. flowers

Elusivebutterfly Fri 28-Apr-23 21:12:40

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Nightsky2 Fri 28-Apr-23 21:18:22

So sorry for your loss Cabbi.๐Ÿ’.

biglouis Fri 28-Apr-23 21:27:45

Thinking of you in this difficult time.