Theexwife
I would do as foxie28 suggests. it is understandable that people are sensitive when they have lost somebody, it happens a lot on here when people complain about their husbands someone will always reply how lucky the person is to have one.
My sister did that all the time and even said it to her aging parents who were in their late eighties. She was horrible to them. Everyone was very upset by her husband’s death, particularly as we realised how vulnerable she was with her mental health issues but it was nasty of her in my opinion to be so cruel to our parents. I could take it when she said it to me, but not to very elderly people. After all, no one can help when they die.