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Beesh Wed 21-Feb-24 23:03:25

My best friend is celebrating her 70th birthday in a couple of weeks. I am really struggling to come up with an original gift for her and am asking for any recommendations or things that you have enjoyed. Her main interest is gardening - I tried to get tickets for the Chelsea Flower Show but they are sold out and returns are not advertised until April. We have enjoyed an afternoon tea on many occasions so am looking for something else. Your advice would be most appreciated.

Granny23 Wed 21-Feb-24 23:12:13

How about a visit to one of the National Trusts properties - particularly one which has extensive beautiful gardens. Many also have plants for sale so you could let her chose one and then you pay for it as a lasting Birthday Gift.

TinSoldier Wed 21-Feb-24 23:14:45

Did you know that Harkness have a rose called Fab at 70?

www.roses.co.uk/product/530607/rose-fab-at-70-3l-4l-pot

NotAGran55 Thu 22-Feb-24 06:33:07

There are tickets available for the Hampton Court Palace Flower Festival which is supposed to be magnificent.

CoolCoco Thu 22-Feb-24 06:41:20

A day at RHS Wisley? It will soon be blossom time and the bulbs will be out.

CoolCoco Thu 22-Feb-24 06:42:23

Or RHS membership if she isn’t a member already?

mumofmadboys Thu 22-Feb-24 07:13:22

Subscription to a gardening magazine?

Casdon Thu 22-Feb-24 07:27:48

Has she been to Highgrove? If not, that is a fabulous day out, and perfect for a special birthday, we went with my friend for her birthday and she loved it. .

Greyisnotmycolour Thu 22-Feb-24 09:56:03

I was going to suggest the Hampton Court show but I see Notagran55 has beaten me to it, so I'll second it as a good choice. The site is much bigger, there's far more space and it's not nearly as crowded as Chelsea. Depending on where you live, the David Austen rose garden in Albrighton is stunning and free to visit. You could eat in the restaurant there and let her choose a rose from their stunning collection as her present.

henetha Thu 22-Feb-24 10:03:53

Would she enjoy an "event", if she is quite adventurous?
A trip in a hot air balloon, a zip-wire, driving a sports car?
There are loads of events like these available.

BigBertha1 Thu 22-Feb-24 10:06:11

I was going to suggest Hampton Court or Tatton Park Flower shoes. My friend who attends most of these says the Marlow one is the best.

BigBertha1 Thu 22-Feb-24 10:06:54

Not Marlow sorry the one over in the West ?Somerset.

Witzend Thu 22-Feb-24 10:14:03

NotAGran55

There are tickets available for the Hampton Court Palace Flower Festival which is supposed to be magnificent.

For my money, the Hampton Court flower show beats Chelsea hands down. For a start, the weather is likely to be better, or at least warmer - and there is way more space.

Chelsea always feels so crowded - I’ve been several times, we used to get free tickets. And the weather can be so hit and miss - I’ve been in hot sunshine - and miserable cold rain, when anywhere under cover (e.g. the marquees) were absolutely heaving, and friend and I could not find anywhere out of the rain to have lunch, so left early.

Greyisnotmycolour Thu 22-Feb-24 10:17:10

BigBerthal Do you mean the Malvern show ? I love the sound of your flower shoes, have you got a pair to spare ?

Sago Thu 22-Feb-24 13:17:03

A gardening magazine subscription, Harrogate flower show, this is held at Newby Hall in N.Yorkshire, nearby are the Himalayan Gardens at Grewelthorpe, they are absolutely spectacular.

Patsy70 Thu 22-Feb-24 14:11:39

I would also recommend the RHS Hampton Court Flower Show. My sister and I go every year and it is one of our highlights, as we are both keen gardeners. In my view it beats Chelsea.

Primrose53 Thu 22-Feb-24 14:13:34

What about a visit to the tulip fields at Spalding, Lincolnshire? Loads of coach companies are doing excursions.

Nell8 Thu 22-Feb-24 14:33:37

Arundel Castle, West Sussex are holding their tulip festival from mid April to early May. 100,000 tulips planted! They claim it's one of the best displays in Europe.

Nannashirlz Thu 22-Feb-24 16:54:06

What about a coach trip to see some beautiful gardens lots of different halls that open to the public have afternoon tea while you there

Nannytopsy Thu 22-Feb-24 17:23:54

If you are in the east, Peter Beales roses south of Norwich is the equivalent of David Austin.

Madgran77 Thu 22-Feb-24 17:33:07

Hampton Court Flower show?

Bennets water lily garden in Dorset (the British Monet Garden!)

Emmett Garden Ide Hill Kent ...beautiful flower beds in summer

J52 Thu 22-Feb-24 17:51:35

Another vote for Hampton Court flowers show, it’s the best out of them all and you can wander around the Hampton Court gardens.
Failing that how about a standard Olive tree, perfectly ok in our climate.

AskAlice Thu 22-Feb-24 18:33:14

Definitely Hampton Court flower show if you have decided on a day out as a gift. Or a garden gift voucher for £70, which would be the equivalent cost of a decent flower show? I was given some by my colleagues when I retired and it was a real treat to choose something that I loved and wanted for my garden to remember a special occasion! They are accepted at lots of different places, including specialist nurseries.

Visgir1 Thu 22-Feb-24 18:39:35

Agree Hampton Court Flower show been several times (including last year) well worth it.
Or a gift voucher for a meal at somewhere like The Ivy, quite a few around now in big cities.

AskAlice Thu 22-Feb-24 18:58:40

Sorry, bit presumptuous of me to assume what amount you wanted to spend! Gift vouchers for whatever amount you want to give would be much appreciated by any keen gardener, I think.