I am so sorry to hear about your husband but please don't reduce the meat content in his food. Meat is needed to provide enough protein, iron and vit B12; iron and vit B12 are not available in adequate concentrations in vegetables. We usually find vegans can probably reach 2 years without meat but even with supplements (very carbon negative) and eventhough the pea / bean/ family are the best for protein, they usually return to at least some dairy / fish after that.
This made me quite teary - but smile too
What were your dream names for your kids when you were growing up?

