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Beechnut Wed 13-Nov-24 12:44:39

I was thinking about this after reading the pet name thread.

If your other half or anyone you know has a nickname do you call them by it or use their proper name?

Somewhere I worked years ago I had a nickname. I’m not often called it these days. My brother has changed it slightly and calls me his variation often and I am also called different names by different people.

Georgesgran Thu 14-Nov-24 15:39:37

DD1 works on a building site, where she’s affectionately (I hope) known as Jeff!!

Grandma70s Thu 14-Nov-24 15:47:59

At work my father was known as George. He didn’t like his real name.

Silverlady333 Thu 14-Nov-24 15:58:10

My husband (second marriage for both of us) introduced himself as Chaz because that is what his friends called him. This is the name I call him and all my family know him by . His family however call him by his real name Charles which he hates!

queenofsaanich69 Thu 14-Nov-24 16:13:22

I was christened one name but called another,which has stuck,so if someone phones and asks for me under my christened name I know they don’t know me,very handy.

singingnutty Thu 14-Nov-24 16:29:15

I had a nickname at school which I acquired during a sports day when one boy called it out - it was inappropriate as it referred to me being a fast runner, which I certainly was not. It stuck and several teachers who did not teach me (hence no class list) actually thought it was my surname.

Baggs Thu 14-Nov-24 16:36:27

My eldest dd gave me a name that is a toddler approximation of my actual name. That stuck.

Youngest dd gave MrB a name that is a toddler approximation of his name. That stuck too and I still call him it.

Greenfinch Thu 14-Nov-24 16:52:58

DGD calls me by a unique variation of Granny which she still uses now at 17. She is the only one who calls me that. Her twin brother used to but decided a couple of years ago that it was “weird” so chose to call me Grandma as he wanted to be different from our other grandchildren.

Foxyferret Thu 14-Nov-24 17:01:34

When I was in the ten pin bowling league I was called Ferret hence my gn name. Not because I had mousy features but they said I could ferret out a strike. My other half calls me Treacle which I like.

grannybuy Thu 14-Nov-24 17:12:27

As a child, my name was shortened by various family members - mainly three different ones. As an adult, the addition of colleagues and in laws brought more. I use my full name when I introduce myself, but some people, annoyingly, immediately shorten it.

Ijustwantpeace2020 Thu 14-Nov-24 17:39:31

My husband calls me by a nickname and I call him by a version of our surname. Unfortunately the Beatles had a record with my name but they pronounced it wrongly and lots of people say it that way!

Llamas99 Thu 14-Nov-24 21:16:18

My music circle friends always called me Cupcake (forget why)!

grannyactivist Thu 14-Nov-24 22:48:32

My husband occasionally calls me a made up variation of my name, but as he and I both go by our middle names anyway there’s enough confusion around without adding nicknames into the mix.

BlueBelle Thu 14-Nov-24 22:53:09

I am only known by my shortened name no one ever calls me my full name
Years ago my then husband used to always call me Pet we had a circle of US friends who all called me Pet too presumable thinking that was a shortened version of Petula Petunia or something

Charleygirl5 Thu 14-Nov-24 23:04:37

At school, a girl had exactly the same name as me and even our middle names started with the same initials. I was known by my first and middle names together and because my middle name can also be a surname many people forgot I had a surname. A tad confusing.

Gin Thu 14-Nov-24 23:37:34

My father’s name was Henry but his mother always called him Jerry which his brothers shortened to Jel but my mother and her friends called him Pat. Very confusing!

I am never called by my given name at all, just responding to several variations, six at the last count.

nanna8 Thu 14-Nov-24 23:40:29

In typical Aussie fashion they add a ‘y’ to the end of my name.

CooCooforCocoPuffs Fri 15-Nov-24 01:42:11

That is my gd name: Margaret:Maggie:Maggot

BlueBelle Fri 15-Nov-24 04:50:07

My uncle was Arthur Charles always know as Joe never knew that wasn’t his real name !

Rosiebee Fri 15-Nov-24 08:15:30

When I was in 6th form our teacher wrote on the blackboard the name of a new student who would be joining us. His initials spelled out DIM and that's what he was known as for the next two years. He loved it! Fortunately he was bright and had a very sunny personality.

harrigran Fri 15-Nov-24 09:03:21

I used to call DH Angel instead of using his given name. I sometimes slipped up and used it outside of the home only realising when he would raise an eyebrow.
I had an aunt that had a very childish name, I was forty before I realised it was a nickname and she was actually called Edith.

Silverlady333 Fri 15-Nov-24 09:05:53

When my niece was little we added the name Murgatroyd to her real name, just for fun. So her 1st name, middle name Murgatroyd then her real surname. I think her dad started it. We often called her by all her names together. Bless her she grew up thinking it was her real name. The extra name soon got dropped when she realised we were just teasing her.

00mam00 Fri 15-Nov-24 09:37:25

My father chose a name for me that couldn’t be shortened, the only nickname I’ve ever had is Mrs. Fierce.

TheWeirdo Fri 15-Nov-24 11:39:21

As I work in a care home for the physically/mentally disabled one of my lovely gents who is 81 and mentally unabled ... he has the mind of someone about 7... jokingly calls me The Weirdo instead of my actual name, he's been doing that for the past 7 years when I first met him! I call him snowball which he finds equally funny!

Magrithea Fri 15-Nov-24 12:03:49

My DM was called Penny by my Grandma (her MiL) and it was ages before I knew that it wasn't her name - her maiden name was Coyne!

My husband and I use the nickname he gave me when we first met

yellowcanary Fri 15-Nov-24 22:41:00

My gran (dad's mum) - her name was Augusta but all through her life she was known as Daisy.

When my sister was small a new neighbour called her Pudge one day, our mum didn't like that and said if he had to call her anything apart from her name it had to be Pidge. He called her that up until he passed away even though she was grown up and a mum by then.