Widowed and I was never alone my whole life, until that suddenly happened. 76 now and widowed at 67
I am never idle, always things to do, basics like making batch ready meals, knitting, spinning, sewing. House and garden maintenance. I recently got an allotment and that is filling much of my time lately. These are springboards for groups and clubs, if that is what I want
From spring to autumn I go cycling as much as I can and that sets me up for the day.
Whatsapp conversations daily with my siblings and AC and good chats with a sister several times a week. Fast walks around town, around the ancient buildings and past gardens, always greeting people on the way
It is down to me, loneliness is not in my personal vocabulary. I am content and love my life, I adapted
My father 81 needs wrist surgery for a bad fracture and I am worried


