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Christmas present for cleaning lady

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ferry23 Thu 05-Dec-24 18:58:09

After a few false starts after moving here 6 months ago, I found a lovely young Mum who comes once a fortnight and does a splendid job. I'd like to give her a Christmas gift and just wondering - do you give an actual gift or do you add a bit of extra cash on?

If cash, how much do you give?

GrannyGravy13 Thu 05-Dec-24 19:01:46

I have two ladies, I will give them £10 each

aggie Thu 05-Dec-24 19:07:34

I used to exchange home bakes , she gave me Latvian biscuits , I gave her mince pies . I don’t bake now

And double pay , she is a lovely lady
Now it’s a bought gift , a candle this year , and double pay

Aldom Thu 05-Dec-24 19:08:07

I don't have a person who cleans for me but I give my hairdresser £25 in a Christmas card.

silverlining48 Thu 05-Dec-24 19:16:14

I double my nice cleaners money.
I tip the hairdresser every time she comes so she just gets a card.

GrannySomerset Thu 05-Dec-24 19:16:49

Significant cash for Wonderful Cleaner, less for gardener, expensive chocolates for hair dresser and chiropodist. Am acutely aware of how much all these cheerful and competent people enhance my life and am very grateful.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 05-Dec-24 19:55:54

Oops should have double checked £20 for each lady.

Farzanah Thu 05-Dec-24 19:58:08

Yes I also double the pay for Christmas week rather than buying stuff she probably doesn’t want/need.

Blinko Thu 05-Dec-24 20:10:41

Farzanah

Yes I also double the pay for Christmas week rather than buying stuff she probably doesn’t want/need.

I’ve been pondering this question re my cleaning lady. Double money - good idea! Thank you x

Mt61 Thu 05-Dec-24 20:23:02

ferry23

After a few false starts after moving here 6 months ago, I found a lovely young Mum who comes once a fortnight and does a splendid job. I'd like to give her a Christmas gift and just wondering - do you give an actual gift or do you add a bit of extra cash on?

If cash, how much do you give?

Mum gives hers £30

Shelflife Thu 05-Dec-24 20:30:07

I don't have a cleaning lady but if I did I would give her £20 .

Aldom Thu 05-Dec-24 20:33:22

Re my hairdresser, I tip her every visit to the salon. The gift in the Christmas card is just that, a Christmas gift. I still give her the usual tip when I pay as those regular tips are shared with all staff.

Cabbie21 Thu 05-Dec-24 21:51:47

My hairdresser is the salon owner and I was always taught that you don’t tip the owner. Not sure is this is still the case. But a Christmas gift is different?

Imarocker Thu 05-Dec-24 21:55:28

I give my cleaner an extra week’s money. Cash also for gardener, window cleaner, hairdresser and beautician (the last two come to the house). No tip for dental hygienist yesterday or osteopath

crazyH Thu 05-Dec-24 21:58:43

An extra week’s money for the cleaning lady ….that’s it.

Redrobin51 Thu 05-Dec-24 22:07:15

When I worked and had a cleaner I used to double her pay at Christmas as she always did an excellent job and I knew I was lucky to have her.

4xGranny Thu 05-Dec-24 22:19:25

I don’t have a cleaner so that doesn’t apply. I give my male hairdresser a bottle of wine. I don’t believe in tipping. They get paid for doing a job.

Aldom Thu 05-Dec-24 22:29:56

Cabbie21

My hairdresser is the salon owner and I was always taught that you don’t tip the owner. Not sure is this is still the case. But a Christmas gift is different?

My hairdresser is the salon manager. The owner of the salon is also a stylist. When she did my hair recently, due to my stylist being on holiday, I gave her the usual tip. As I
said up thread, all tips are shared fairly amongst all staff.

Visgir1 Thu 05-Dec-24 22:37:23

I give her a gift and extra cash. She's worth every penny.

NotSpaghetti Thu 05-Dec-24 22:38:04

My mother-in-law tips her cleaner the equivalent of her wages for Christmas.

Doodledog Fri 06-Dec-24 00:44:47

My cleaner has commented on the waterless diffuser in my bathroom, so I've got her one for Christmas with the same oil I put in mine. I will also pay her for her usual day in the week between Christmas and NY, but give her the day off.

I don't tip or buy for people like the binmen or postie, although when my decorator has done a job for me, I get her a gift too. She's done several rooms over the years, so I know her quite well now, and find giving money awkward, plus it's her business and I pay her the rate for the job, so paying more seems pointless. I would rather give a luxury item that I know she wouldn't buy for herself as she has a young family. Fancy bath oils or a good candle - that sort of thing. The value roughly depends on the size of the job, but is not worked out to the penny.

When I had the kitchen done, I noticed that the fitters were always eating sweets, so I got them a tub of Celebrations and gave it to them on the last day. I might have got whisky, but one of them had said he was a recovering alcoholic.

I think a small gift like that is a way to show you are pleased with the job, but is not as awkward as giving money as well as paying for the work.

Ziggy62 Fri 06-Dec-24 07:57:30

I was a cleaner until recently. Last Christmas some customers gave me extra in pay (although obviously tax man had share of that). I also received chocolates, beautiful scarf, wine and biscuits. Personally I'm not keen on bath products but still nice that customers are kind enough to show appreciation
Oh I also gave each family a bit of shortbread from M&S

Ziggy62 Fri 06-Dec-24 07:58:24

Box of , not bit of lol

NanKate Fri 06-Dec-24 08:00:31

We give our cleaner £10 and some chocolate. We double the pay to our window cleaner who only charges us £12, he has been with us over 25 years!

Ladyleftfieldlover Fri 06-Dec-24 08:07:40

I will give our cleaner extra money and probably a box of chocolates.