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Would you be a granny escort?

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Bea65 Tue 04-Feb-25 10:06:27

Well would you? I wouldn’t but she’s getting filthy rich doing so…was a devout Christian for 40 yrs, then met a 27year old rugby player at age 57…

Sago Wed 05-Feb-25 12:12:30

David49

Dont think of “grannies” being the age of most of us on GN,
those in their 40s and 50s are very attractive to younger men. As for granny escorts some do offer themselves for cash, for most they have control of their lives they are content to be entertained by a younger man and have a proper job in the daytime without any long term commitment.

You’re well informed David 😉

Allira Wed 05-Feb-25 12:14:46

Sago 😂😂😂

Iam64 Wed 05-Feb-25 12:15:12

Sago 👍🏻

Barleyfields Wed 05-Feb-25 12:56:41

Hmmm 🧐

VANECAM Wed 05-Feb-25 13:24:38

Allsorts

Miss Adventure, just out of interest I clicked the link and as soon as she opened her mouth to speak switched it off as just those few seconds before she came on I thought this looks very dodgy not at all like my You Tube I get information from. I know I must be slow on the uptake but you would have to be on the porn sites actively looking and seeing such things. Wish I hadn't looked its vile but obviously not all dirty old men and immature men looking at them.. If I had my way they would be banned.its dangerous and seedy to put it mildly, drugs and coercion involve vulnerable women and men. Cannot understand This Morning airing such things, to normalise the activity, she’s obviously got mental issues and is very lonely and having her moments in the spotlight.

Thanks Allsorts, you’ve saved me the trouble of viewing the video which I had already imagined was unsuitable for me.

Unfortunately by watching it, you will be deluged with similar material as mention earlier.

Barleyfields Wed 05-Feb-25 13:26:52

You won’t be deluged with similar material. I watched it, no unsavoury pop-ups or ads.

petra Wed 05-Feb-25 13:41:57

VANECAM
Why do keep repeating that twoddle. It’s not porn, it’s not abuse, it’s not radicalising anyone.
You really are sounding ridiculous now.

MissPolly Wed 05-Feb-25 16:52:36

You’re spot on and I recognised her as soon as I saw her this morning.

ruthiek Wed 05-Feb-25 16:57:47

I watched the programme she was on in the evening , I found it very sordid when she was on the laptop filming herself doing things including toys and at the end of the FaceTime she had earned £9.50…. It was grubby in a way the younger girls in the programme weren’t she was a florist as well I thought she should stick to that .i am not a prude but ………………

Bea65 Wed 05-Feb-25 18:00:09

If I were one of her siblings, I would be mortified...
as someone else has said, I expected a 'stunner' but she's a 'normal average older woman' whatever that means...in fact I think she looks older and bears a familiar looking face of one of my elderly cousins who was 88...RIP cousin

Also viewed the you tube video for only a few short mins..she was opening a 'treasure chest' of questions that people wanted to know the answers to.....very weird...the way she talked when answering the ?ss reminded me of my former needlework teacher at convent school...first of all!!

rocketstop Wed 05-Feb-25 18:29:12

MissAdventure

Maybe she doesn't fancy joining the women's institute.

I expect she stays flexible, gets company, and boosts her pension.

No problem paying her bills,I bet. smile

..or staying warm grin

Outcast52 Wed 05-Feb-25 18:42:29

Barleyfields

Oh dear Kandinsky! A man under 35 wanting sex with a woman in her 50s is not a pervert! I will have you know I was very attractive in my 50s (and beyond), though I have never been promiscuous and certainly wouldn’t have been interested in a much younger man.

Allsorts, I clicked on the link too and found it interesting to learn more about her. Dodgy and vile it wasn’t. Quite eye-opening and entertaining! (And btw I have never seen porn and certainly wouldn’t wish to.)

Hear, hear! I was about to reply to Kandinsky in similar vein. What a ridiculous notion that it's a perversion for a young man to find an older woman attractive! I too was very attractive right into my late 50s and was often propositioned by younger men. In fact, most of my life younger men have been attracted to me and I didn't turn them all down! People are different and as long as no-one gets hurt, they should be allowed to live their lives as they please, without narrow-minded and unacceptable judgements like Kandinsky's.

Marydoll Wed 05-Feb-25 19:21:02

So many attractive women here on GN.😉
Sadly, I am not one of them🤣

However, I was once popositioned by an older gentleman, in an expensive fur coat and wearing a cossack like fur hat, on a Berlin underground station platform. He was obviously wealthy.
The line had been closed unexpectedly and he offered to accompany me back to the city centre.
He did not realise that DH was further down the platform.🤣
I was quite flattered!

Oohlookatyou Wed 05-Feb-25 19:23:51

Yes. I give good head.

Kandinsky Wed 05-Feb-25 19:37:29

Outcast52
Apologies. I didn’t mean to offend anyone.
But you’re right, saying it’s perverted is probably a bit much. I just don’t know many 30 year old men who’d want sex with a 55 year old woman. Unless it’s purely a one nighter.
Wasn’t there a film about this sort of thing years ago with Dustin Hoffman?

NonGrannyMoll Wed 05-Feb-25 19:54:26

Horses for courses. If she likes it (and so do the lads), fair enough. Wouldn't suit me. I prefer men who can hold a coherent adult conversation after the essential three minutes. grin

win Wed 05-Feb-25 20:33:44

Bea65

I’m not saying that… the lady calls herself a granny escort…

What a weird comment, I definitely do not agree, for some it can be an alternative way to have intimacy

Marydoll Wed 05-Feb-25 20:39:45

The lady looks like my next door neighbour, who happens to be my son's MIL.

Thepanaramawoman Wed 05-Feb-25 21:31:55

I have watched a clip of the interview. It doesn’t show all of it but from what I saw I wasn’t sure if she was mainly doing it for the money, the physical closeness or what. I enjoy a loving, relationship with a retired man of similar age to me, and I have a job I enjoy even though it doesn’t pay very much so no there would be no call for me to be a granny escort. I do believe in live and let live however and would like to think I wouldn’t judge her.

Shinamae Wed 05-Feb-25 21:38:14

Kandinsky

Outcast52
Apologies. I didn’t mean to offend anyone.
But you’re right, saying it’s perverted is probably a bit much. I just don’t know many 30 year old men who’d want sex with a 55 year old woman. Unless it’s purely a one nighter.
Wasn’t there a film about this sort of thing years ago with Dustin Hoffman?

Yes, the Graduate with Anne Bancroft..

Bea65 Wed 05-Feb-25 21:42:45

win

Bea65

I’m not saying that… the lady calls herself a granny escort…

What a weird comment, I definitely do not agree, for some it can be an alternative way to have intimacy

What’s weird about the above comment ?

Busty Granny is her GILF name which I’ve just learned by watching the Olivia something program.. ugh had to switch her off as she started her online performance for a customer..this is not intimacy IMO But you can tell yourself it is …

vampirequeen Thu 06-Feb-25 06:30:29

She's having fun and making good money. Go for it, girl.

Dickens Thu 06-Feb-25 10:08:08

Basically then, she's just an older sex-worker catering for one of the numerous fetishes?

I'm in the live-and-live-camp I guess.

My only reserves are that I have an instinctive dislike of prurient 'click-bait' type TV interviews and media articles, and am somewhat always slightly disturbed by the imbalance of power in sex-for-money transactions.

I'm sure you can still have fun whilst working, but he (or she) who pays the piper calls the tune, and in this largely unregulated industry, you don't ever quite know what the demands might be - nor the personal hygiene habits / health conditions of the individual making them.

Dickens Thu 06-Feb-25 10:09:05

live and let live should be!

Galaxy Thu 06-Feb-25 10:11:43

I am not in the live and let live camp for prostitution. Men who use sex workers figure highly in the violence/domestic violence figures.
It is abuse of generally vulnerable women and vulnerable gay men. Those few women who are in it 'voluntarily' and cheer it on are causing harm to the women who have no choice