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Would you be a granny escort?

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Bea65 Tue 04-Feb-25 10:06:27

Well would you? I wouldn’t but she’s getting filthy rich doing so…was a devout Christian for 40 yrs, then met a 27year old rugby player at age 57…

VANECAM Thu 06-Feb-25 10:32:15

On This Morning today (apparently) they will be interviewing a 72 year old man.

Previously a monk (great back story) he is now a highly paid escort who regularly entertains 20- something women.

Dickens Thu 06-Feb-25 10:32:16

Galaxy

I am not in the live and let live camp for prostitution. Men who use sex workers figure highly in the violence/domestic violence figures.
It is abuse of generally vulnerable women and vulnerable gay men. Those few women who are in it 'voluntarily' and cheer it on are causing harm to the women who have no choice

... point taken - which is why I'm equivocal about live-and-let-live.

The fact that women's bodies (it is I think mostly women) can be "purchased" just cements the inequality between the sexes and gives a green light to misogynists.

But maybe I'm taking it all too seriously, I don't know.

Indigo8 Thu 06-Feb-25 10:43:03

Dickens When violence against women is on the up, I don't think it is possible to be "taking it all too seriously".

There is an established link between men who use prostitutes and men who violate women.

AGAA4 Thu 06-Feb-25 10:44:54

VANECAM

On This Morning today (apparently) they will be interviewing a 72 year old man.

Previously a monk (great back story) he is now a highly paid escort who regularly entertains 20- something women.

Another reason why I don't watch This Morning. It's a bit off putting when you're eating your porridge.

Galaxy Thu 06-Feb-25 10:45:55

Sorry Dickens I wasnt having a go at you, I just nicked your phrase to express my position smile

Dickens Thu 06-Feb-25 13:08:00

Galaxy

Sorry Dickens I wasnt having a go at you, I just nicked your phrase to express my position smile

Apparently the phrase was first mentioned in 1622 by one Gerard de Malynes - in a book about trade-law and quoted the Dutch proverb "leuen ende laeten leuven". (Yeah, I just looked it up!)

But, in the context we're talking about it's usually directed at those who are critical of another's life style / choices. The added ryder - 'as long as they are not harming anyone' is the rub though.

In the wider context, being freely available to be purchased for sex (which I assume this woman is) through choice may not harm her - nor directly her male buyers... but what's the subliminal message being given to men? And, what about the wives and partners of her clients, they certainly are not all single.

As Indigo8 says above, There is an established link between men who use prostitutes and men who violate women.

I'm not a prude. If people freely want to engage in sex with each other because that's their equal choice in the matter, it doesn't make me clutch my pearls, but buying a woman's (or vulnerable male's) body, sinks my spirits. And this woman is - for all her jollity and joie de vivre - just perpetuating the woman-for-sale trading.

Bea65 Thu 06-Feb-25 14:15:49

VANECAM

On This Morning today (apparently) they will be interviewing a 72 year old man.

Previously a monk (great back story) he is now a highly paid escort who regularly entertains 20- something women.

I didn’t see this monk- what time was his interview?

Kamj Thu 06-Feb-25 15:54:15

I would if I was that way inclined, wouldn't want charging lol
57 is no age, davina M, Amanda H, Lorraine K, Carol V all that age or older and lots of men pine over them

Barleyfields Thu 06-Feb-25 16:57:07

Apparently she’s 70 though - and looks older. Haven’t you looked at the link and the photo? She’s nothing like any of the women you mention.

Iam64 Thu 06-Feb-25 19:24:46

Galaxy

I am not in the live and let live camp for prostitution. Men who use sex workers figure highly in the violence/domestic violence figures.
It is abuse of generally vulnerable women and vulnerable gay men. Those few women who are in it 'voluntarily' and cheer it on are causing harm to the women who have no choice

Thanks Galaxy. I’m 100 percent with you on this
Normalising sex work needs challenging every time