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Tradesmen and bathrooms

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ferry23 Wed 18-Jun-25 08:32:53

I don't have a lot of luck with tradesmen. Since I moved here a year ago, those that have eventually turned up have broken my hoover and a long handled dustpan and brush, stained my (brand new) carpet, knocked the end off a newly fitted worktop - you name it, they've done it.

Last week and yesterday I had two tradesmen in - one to do a small job, the other to give me a quote. They both asked if they could use the loo. OK, you can't deny anyone that. I've shown them where it is and pointedly told them (I actually pointed out to one of them with my hand) that there's a hand towel next to the basin. Both times I've gone in after they've gone and both times the hand towel is in exactly the same position and bone dry and the basin is bone dry as well. So clearly they haven't washed their hands.

Quite apart from basic hygiene, my son has MS (he doesn't live with me but he does visit) so I am extra scrupulous as he simply cannot afford to pick up any virus.

I'm not sure how else I can tactfully tell people I don't know to wash their hands after they used the toilet.

Suggestions welcome!

Sago Thu 19-Jun-25 19:26:32

I often don’t wash my hands in public lavatories as I have to touch a door handle to leave, I carry sanitiser and use this once I have exited.

BlueBelle Thu 19-Jun-25 19:28:02

The posters son doesn’t live in her house I m sure she’ll have a good clean before he visits but thanks for your advice on how to speak Win

ferry23 Thu 19-Jun-25 19:39:54

Actually I didn't "check".

It just so happened that on both occasions I was crossing my legs by the time they went and rushed to the bathroom. It was when I went to turn the tap on that I noticed the basin was bone dry and the (clean) hand towel hadn't been used.

But regardless of that, I'm not interested in having people in my home who can't follow basic hygiene practices.

Good for your Bluebelle if you're happy to have stranger's germs jumping around your home - who had quite possibly handled their genitals before handling your door handles and anything else they might touch - then bully for you. I'm not.

Calendargirl Thu 19-Jun-25 19:40:52

Sago

I often don’t wash my hands in public lavatories as I have to touch a door handle to leave, I carry sanitiser and use this once I have exited.

If there are paper towels, I take one and use it to open the exit door, then dispose of it in a bin.

(This is after washing my hands, would always do that even if I then had to touch the handle. If no paper towels, would use my coat sleeve or glove).

JenniferEccles Thu 19-Jun-25 22:56:52

I remember the story about how Meghan Markle shocked Catherine soon after they met by asking to borrow her lipstick 😮
The cheek of the woman.

Apparently she was most offended when Catherine quite rightly said no.

NotSpaghetti Fri 20-Jun-25 00:38:27

I thought this thread would be about tradesmen fitting bathrooms!
grin

NotSpaghetti Fri 20-Jun-25 00:39:41

...or even trades women!

NotAGran55 Fri 20-Jun-25 06:03:00

Most people don’t wash their hands properly anyway, so I wouldn’t worry about it.

Calendargirl Fri 20-Jun-25 06:36:08

JenniferEccles

I thought Catherine did allow Meghan to borrow the lip gloss, but was obviously not keen!

I bet she chucked it away afterwards.

💄💋

JenniferEccles Fri 20-Jun-25 07:48:53

On reflection I think you are right Calendargirl !
Catherine would have been put on the spot by the request and probably just handed it over feeling a bit bemused at the request.

Yes I bet it was binned immediately!

keepingquiet Fri 20-Jun-25 08:21:04

NotSpaghetti

I thought this thread would be about tradesmen fitting bathrooms!
grin

So did I! Now I wish I had never clicked on it...!

Franbern Fri 20-Jun-25 10:37:38

Well, If I used this loo, would probably find handtowel unused. I rarely actually dry my hands after washing, just let them get air-dried.