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Ticket protocol

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vickymeldrew Sat 18-Oct-25 22:51:02

I’m interested that some of the replies here say they wouldn’t expect payment. That is what I always thought would be the case, but lately I find people are expecting something. I’m not talking about sought after productions where tickets are scarce, but often shows with tickets still available. £80 to see a play . London prices !

LOUISA1523 Sat 18-Oct-25 21:24:20

If I can't go to a show.... and offer a ticket to a friend, I would never ever accept any money....I am just happy the tickets are not wasted.....

escaped Sat 18-Oct-25 21:13:19

Personally I would give it to them and expect nothing in return. Better it gets used.

But if someone offered it to me, ie the other way round, I'd probably buy them a gift, not money.

Ashcombe Sat 18-Oct-25 21:12:46

During the resrictions due to Covid, etc we went through a phase of booking tickets for the ballet in Plymouth then finding that one of us (usually DH being stuck in France) couldn't attend. We gave away the pairs of tickets each time to friends who were keen to go, often not having experienced much live ballet before. We didn't expect payment but friends often reciprocated with bottles of wine, etc.

Oreo Sat 18-Oct-25 20:59:26

But only if you really want to go.Travelling there is expensive too.
If it’s a real friend and they can’t now attend I would give the ticket not expect them to pay for it.

CanadianGran Sat 18-Oct-25 20:53:26

I will always offer to pay full price, but often they will just ask me as a guest. I do the same to friends or family; I figure I've already paid the ticket and my DH couldn't come, so it would otherwise sit empty.

If the friend said to pay what you could afford, I would look up the ticket price and pay that.

rafichagran Sat 18-Oct-25 20:50:36

"Pay me what you can afford" I hate that, why not be honest and state what you want for the ticket. If that was said to me I would pay full price as I would not want to look mean.

vickymeldrew Sat 18-Oct-25 20:40:38

From time to time, friends offer me a spare ticket to a show or event because they are unable to attend.
What do Gransnetters think are the protocols for paying for this. Do you offer full face value of the ticket or part of the purchase price? Equally, if you have a spare ticket, do you ask for the full value or a token amount?
A friend recently offered me a ticket for a play in London saying “pay me what you can afford”.
What do others do ?