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Wedding dilemma

(28 Posts)
Oreo Fri 27-Feb-26 15:23:00

I think you would look fine in black jersey trousers with a roomy ( or at least not tight) pretty long length top of your choosing. A pashmina in case you need warmth, depending on weather and ballet pump style flat shoes.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 27-Feb-26 15:21:47

I would go for a co-ord flowing trousers, top and long jacket.

There are many beautiful flat shoes around at the moment.

If you have a John Lewis nearby book an appointment with a personal shopper.

Narnia Fri 27-Feb-26 15:18:41

My DD gets married in a few months, very small thing.
Registry office, followed by a meal with a few friends, no evening do.
I've started looking for things to wear and it's giving me sleepless nights!
I'm very much comfy clothes, no makeup type.
Also plus size with big boobs, bottom half is different size to top.
I've tried maxi dresses, i looked like a circus tent ๐Ÿ˜ข
It's all so out of my comfort zone, i feel like I'm stressing my DD out, she just says be comfy!
I think I've looked at every plus size website that there is.
I'm literally lost! I don't go on evenings out or social occasions.
I also can't wear heels, so need flat nice shoes.
Advice please ๐Ÿ˜ฉ