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Tattoos on older women

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MT62 Thu 16-Jul-26 19:37:36

I know tattoos are a thing now, & I’ll probably be slated, but whilst on holiday, & walking round the seaside today, I noticed a lot of woman in their 60s/70s have tattoos.
I think they probably had them in the 90s as the tattoos looked blue & faded.
I know friends of mine had them done, especially around the belly button, shoulder & lower back.
Some regret getting them done, two have had them removed.

Now all the younger people seem to have full sleeves & full thighs, & lower legs, is this trend persuading the older generation to get one?
I know, each to their own, but personally I don’t care for tattoos.
Just wondering what other grans think of tattoos?
Do some grans have them & regret getting them done?

Juneandarchie1 Sat 18-Jul-26 21:13:52

I had my one and only tattoo done when I reached 70 yr old.
It’s a small outline of my cockapoo with a heart above his head, and it’s on my ankle, as he’s always around my feet.
He’s very special to me because he’s my Assistance dog and has been my saviour. I owe him so much ❤️🐾

HeavenLeigh Sat 18-Jul-26 21:58:01

I’ve got three wouldn’t have any more one just above ankle one on each shoulder blade all can be covered by clothes they are only really seen in summer months they are tributes to close family. Wouldn’t have any on arms as I like to see clear skin, each to their own of course

Milest0ne Sun 19-Jul-26 00:30:43

Did you see the cartoon , set in a care home, of two residents playing “Guess the tattoo” ?
I think the only tattoo I would be tempted to get is if I had a serious allergy. Or a rare blood group. Perhaps inside the wrist for medics to see.

Nannan2 Sun 19-Jul-26 02:41:42

I'm with Dickens.😁Just seems like trying to stir up trouble.

PaperMonster2 Sun 19-Jul-26 14:33:28

I have two, very personal to me and hidden by clothes. I discovered a similarly aged colleague has the most beautiful tattoo I have ever seen very recently. I often think of having another but have never got round to it. They can look absolutely beautiful if done well.

Aussiegrandma01 Sun 19-Jul-26 15:17:39

I heard that people like the pain of getting tattoos, dealing with anxiety etc and they get addicted to having them.

MissAdventure Sun 19-Jul-26 16:26:17

If they're addicted to pain, they can come round here and I'll bash 'em with a screwdriver for a couple of hours, for half the price. smile

Primrose53 Sun 19-Jul-26 16:39:51

Former Spice Girl Mel C got married yesterday. She is in her 50s now. Her photos are awful showing some very ugly tattoos on her back and arms. An old fashioned tribal band and an anchor and something I don’t recognise on her back. I seem to recall she had a big black cross on the other arm.

OldFrill Sun 19-Jul-26 18:14:00

Not an older woman obviously but is Andy Burnham the first tattooed British PM .

Primrose53 Sun 19-Jul-26 19:59:03

OldFrill

Not an older woman obviously but is Andy Burnham the first tattooed British PM .

Doubtful.
Obviously Angela Rayner has tattoos. 🤣

pen50 Sun 19-Jul-26 20:55:36

Not a fan myself except that I have seen tattoos used to - not cover up, more celebrate? - mastectomy scars (things like climbing roses all over the chest) and I think that were I faced with such surgery I might well consider something similar.

Primrose53 Sun 19-Jul-26 21:47:30

A friend of mine was one of the very first to have nipples tattooed on following reconstruction after breast cancer. She was featured in medical journals and was thrilled with them

Delene100 Sun 19-Jul-26 22:32:16

I am thinking of getting a tattoo to cover up a scar across one half of my back which resulted from a mastectomy, where a muscle was taken from my back to support a breast implant. I am very conscious of that scar, and although I am in my 70s, it bothers me when I look in the mirror.

Luckygirl3 Sun 19-Jul-26 23:33:21

I bumped into a young woman today - I am on the same trustees as she is. She is usually more covered up than today when, because of the heat, she was wearing shorts - very short ones! On her upper thighs there are several really strange tattoos - nothing artistic - just poorly drawn outlines of things - a car was one of them. About 6 or more inches long. Really crudely done. Lots of white space. I am sure she loves them but it is hard to imagine why anyone might do this ...

OldFrill Sun 19-Jul-26 23:39:50

Primrose53

OldFrill

Not an older woman obviously but is Andy Burnham the first tattooed British PM .

Doubtful.
Obviously Angela Rayner has tattoos. 🤣

SBFTWB 😉

MrsMatt Mon 20-Jul-26 18:52:56

I have a tattoo on my left inside forearm.

I had it done after my husband died. It means a lot to me and it was designed and done by my now daughter in law.

It shows my husbands heartbeat, the date he died and a styalised version of the Wonder Woman logo as my adult kids nicknamed me a Wonder Widow.

MissAdventure Mon 20-Jul-26 21:19:06

smile
That's unusual, and looks good.

Patsytaylor Tue 21-Jul-26 15:15:19

Mel C's wedding pictures totally spoiled by those ugly tattoos on her arms.

rafichagran Thu 23-Jul-26 15:13:53

Patsytaylor

Mel C's wedding pictures totally spoiled by those ugly tattoos on her arms.

In your opinion. I dont think they were spoilt. You have to realise people like different things.

ViceVersa Thu 23-Jul-26 15:28:33

rafichagran

Patsytaylor

Mel C's wedding pictures totally spoiled by those ugly tattoos on her arms.

In your opinion. I dont think they were spoilt. You have to realise people like different things.

Exactly. A friend of my daughter is very heavily tattooed, with full sleeves on both arms. My daughter was a bridesmaid at her wedding, and all I saw was a beautiful bride, who looked radiantly happy, as she should be.

PaperMonster2 Thu 23-Jul-26 17:11:00

MrsMatt, that’s beautiful.

Also Mel C looked beautiful.

JenniferEccles Fri 24-Jul-26 12:20:00

Whenever the subject of tattoos is discussed on here there is one question I would like answered.

Those of you who have tattoos, has anyone bitterly regretted it after a matter of years, or even months, and have you tried to have them removed?

I know it allegedly can be done but I can’t imagine the skin would go back to its perfect, unblemished state.

So, a tattoo is for life.
How can anyone possibly be absolutely certain that they will still love it, decades down the line?
They can’t, can they?

Parsley3 Fri 24-Jul-26 13:04:20

MrsMatt

I have a tattoo on my left inside forearm.

I had it done after my husband died. It means a lot to me and it was designed and done by my now daughter in law.

It shows my husbands heartbeat, the date he died and a styalised version of the Wonder Woman logo as my adult kids nicknamed me a Wonder Widow.

That's lovely, Mrs Matt.

MissAdventure Sat 25-Jul-26 15:07:32

JenniferEccles

Whenever the subject of tattoos is discussed on here there is one question I would like answered.

Those of you who have tattoos, has anyone bitterly regretted it after a matter of years, or even months, and have you tried to have them removed?

I know it allegedly can be done but I can’t imagine the skin would go back to its perfect, unblemished state.

So, a tattoo is for life.
How can anyone possibly be absolutely certain that they will still love it, decades down the line?
They can’t, can they?

I've never regretted mine.
They are small, and I don't give them a second thought.

My skin has plenty of blemishes, so they just blend in with the general state of saggy, scarred, lumpy bits on me.

I had a friend years ago who loved ac/dc, and their album covers featured a skeleton riding a Harley Davidson motorbike, and doing other skeleton things.

When she was 17 my friend had a whole album cover tattoed on her back.
Clever, but horrible.

JenniferEccles Mon 27-Jul-26 23:47:03

But does your friend still love the tattoo
MissAdventure ?

How old is she now?