I’m a mother without a mother or father to turn to for advice and wondered whether anyone here might be kind enough to help me . . .
My question is quite specific:
Are there any mothers of 3 (2 boys and 1 girl or 3boys only) who raised your children without any support, not even a family member to consult over the phone who could tell me whether they think having 3 children in this situation is a good idea or whether I’m better to stick with the two lovely boys I have?
I’m a stay at home mother and can afford to be for as long as need be, my husband is very hands on and supportive but does work long hours so it is mostly only the weekends that he is here, and the children would all be two years apart.
I suppose what I’m asking is do you feel everyone’s quality of life would have been better if you’d had stuck with 2 or did 3 just enrich it?
I want to do right by the children I already have if you get what I mean?
Thank you so much in advance and I’m terribly sorry if this is not the place for such a question.
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