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Holiday Dilemma - what would you do/

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Youngerthanspringtime Sat 02-May-26 21:14:57

A friend and I have booked a holiday abroad in the upcoming weeks.
However her health has deteriorated quite a bit in the last few weeks.
She does not know if she is up to going or not.
There is no possibility of anyone taking her place and going instead. She has said that she wants to reimburse me the cost of the holiday if she doesn't go but that doesn't sit well with me though she insists the money is not problem.
I don't really want to go on my own, although in the past I have gone abroad on my own, but that was a number of years ago. not sure I'm up to that now.
What would YOU do in that situation.

Gran22boys Sat 02-May-26 21:23:05

I wouldn’t go and would just forget about the money. But wouldn’t your friend’s insurance cover her? That way, she could give you half the money perhaps.

Cossy Sat 02-May-26 21:28:36

What a horrid problem, personally, I’d probably be tempted to alone.

I wish you and friend well flowers

Silvershadow Sat 02-May-26 21:33:23

I suppose it hinges on the type of holiday. If it were with Saga, a coach trip or similar there will be others on their own to pal up with if you wanted to. My friend goes on walking holidays with HF by herself but always finds a fellow traveller to chat to.

Tenko Sat 02-May-26 21:39:24

Could you find someone to go with you and do a name change?
Do you have a group insurance? If so , if she cancels , you can claim as well . If you have individual insurance, you’re not covered if you don’t want to go . It’s called disinclination to travel .
Plus your friends insurance may not pay unless she has medical documentation to say she can’t travel .
I’d go but I don’t know your age or the sort of holiday you’ve booked .

BlueBelle Sat 02-May-26 21:56:26

If I was younger than I am ( you might be) I d go alone, now in my eighties I think I d miss it

MissChateline Sat 02-May-26 22:08:08

I would go on my own and enjoy the holiday.

Youngerthanspringtime Sat 02-May-26 22:16:09

I don't know if my friends insurance would cover her at the moment.
Its not a tour or group holiday just the two of us on a package.
As I said, in the past I've gone alone, but now a few years down the line I'm not too keen.
I would feel bad about taking the money, don't think I can do that. and no there is no one available to take her place.
If I do go I would probably spend most of the time sitting by the pool reading with maybe a few short walks . I don't have a lot of stamina for much else.

MT62 Sat 02-May-26 22:19:50

That’s unfortunate. Can you say where you are going?
I ask because of the current climate of being stuck somewhere if anything was to happen with this situation with Iran.
If it’s Spain, Italy, somewhere like that I would maybe go on my own, if it was a cruise, or coach holiday.
I hope you get sorted.