I may have touched on this subject before apologies if I have. Today while we were driving home I broached the subject with OH, how would he feel if I organised my own non-funeral.
Taken to crematorium by funeral directors and ashes available for family to hold a scattering and say their goodbyes at a place of their choosing. We have had a discussion before and I was hoping he would of changed his mind but no he says he'll be very upset and probably wouldn't participate, he wants a 'proper' funeral to say goodbye and said better hope you don't go first then. We ended up laughing about it but it is a worry to me.
I loathe funerals even if they are 'celebrations of life' and don't wish my children or grandchildren to have to have such an upsetting experience far rather they all go somewhere that means something to them all say their goodbyes and then have a drink/meal together I feel would be much less traumatic.
Would you override your OH's wishes and just leave it to him to arrange should it be necessary?
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