Harrigan, that is an awful thing to say. Jesus lived and died for us. No one person has had a greater effect on the world than he. Every day we are reminded of him when we look at the date, calculated from the moment of his birth, who else could have that effect on the world, so to just say he was a chancer who was willing to suffer an agonising death is an insult to a good person, whether you are a Christian or not, would you suffer that to make a point.
Imperfect, your post made me cry, to lose your do beautiful daughter . I believe what happened to you must have been such a comfort and a sign to carry on in hope. I wish I did believe in life after death, I believe this life is a journey and we learn along the way, maybe reincarnation, I don't know but our minds and soles are so unique and nature wastes nothing, so can't see that this is all there is, hope not, because of all the good people that suffer here on earth, would like to think they had hope eternal.