Here goes -
Last January I moved house, some may remember what could go wrong did go wrong with the move. The same days as the move my daughter ended up in hospital, I couldn't get there , ward wouldn't discuss her medical condition on the phone. Agreement was made, eldest nephew would travel there, speak to the ward staff relay details to me, I could ask any questions of staff through him. A niece let it slipped my nephew had opened a chat room for the family on face book, I asked him why and he said they were concerned, I asked who was in there, a female cousin my daughter hasn't seen for many a year, a male cousin she last saw at his wedding ten years previously , of all in there only two had ever called to see her. As discussion between my nephew, the hospital and me covered personal medical details of my girl I was upset, asked him not to discuss these details and not to tell them of the conditions she was living in because I was getting cleaners etc in before she was discharged. They were discussing much. Even the state of her home. That my sisters had joined in was too much for me, I told my nephew they could all sod off so they did . One of my g nieces also my daughters Godchild was in the group, she hadn't invited my daughter to her wedding the year before , my daughter was so hurt. My nephew also attends Quaker meetings, I told him to meditation on a verse in the book of St James on the wrong of gossip also told him his ego was greater than his faith. That's it, to be fair I did tell them to sod off and they have. I am distressed it happened but cannot regret protecting my beloved daughter from a gossipy chat room. She deserved to keep what dignity she had left and they were taking it from her.
Sorry another epistle but I owed you an explanation after my post last night.
