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Bereavement

My beloved child

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Anniebach Wed 01-Nov-17 18:45:42

My beloved daughter took her life in the early hours of this morning.

My first born, my joy, my best friend , my laughter, my tears

I am broken

Annie

annsixty Sat 11-Nov-17 13:21:46

All this goes to show is that basically we are all " very nice and very caring "friends to all.

Swanny Sat 11-Nov-17 13:26:24

Annie you are being so brave. I have seen you be a source of wisdom and strength to many on GN since I joined and can appreciate how difficult each day must seem for you when you are feeling so lonely. I'm sure you know of the poem Footprints but have included the link anyway. Another one I often read at anxious times is Desiderata flowers x

Bellanonna Sat 11-Nov-17 14:05:47

Oh that poem Footprints brought tears to my eyes. I do know it but had forgotten how poignant it is.
Annsixty what you say is very true.

Anniebach Sat 11-Nov-17 14:12:29

I stitched Footprints into a sampler. Desiderata I try to live by, often fail but still try. Thank you x

Crafting Sat 11-Nov-17 14:14:29

ann I think many of us who are believers say quiet prayers for those who are suffering in some way. We do not always mention these prayers on threads as sometimes this can cause a problem for non believers (not all but some). We know that annie has faith which is, I think, why so many prayers have been included in this thread. You too are included in my prayers ann as I know how hard things are for you and your family. Annie is the first one who posts prayers to help others in need. It is now our turn to support her in any way we can, with prayers, kind words or just thinking about her. I hope in some small way all this caring helps a little

Morgana Sat 11-Nov-17 14:57:11

Have only just discovered this thread. Am so, so sorry to hear this terrible news.
My thoughts are with you and for all those who have lost a child.

Menopaws Sat 11-Nov-17 16:21:34

........Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune but do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.....
Annie x

lemongrove Sat 11-Nov-17 16:28:33

Lovely words.smile
Are you managing some sleep at night Annie ?

Cherrytree59 Sat 11-Nov-17 16:47:30

Annie I'm hoping that you are able to get some sleep or at least
a little rest tonight to recharge your batteries.

God bless xxx

Blinko Sat 11-Nov-17 18:07:50

I'm not posting much, Annie but you are still in my thoughts and not just mine, I can see. Do please keep posting. It's good to see you are also posting now and then on other threads too. Keep strong and be kind to yourself flowers

Menopaws Sat 11-Nov-17 18:47:07

Yes Desiderata at its best

Norah Sat 11-Nov-17 19:19:28

I know little to your story, but I am very sorry. I'm praying for you.

morethan2 Sat 11-Nov-17 19:30:46

You are still in my thoughts Annie

Daisyboots Sat 11-Nov-17 20:27:41

I have only just seen this thread but I am sending my heartfelt wishes to you because I cannot imagine the pain you are going through at the moment

nigglynellie Sat 11-Nov-17 20:31:17

annie, I have only just read this terrible news and I can't tell you how sorry I am. I'm lost for words to even begin to comfort you, but I am thinking of you and praying that you can find the strength to carry you through this desperately unhappy time. flowers xx

Anniebach Sat 11-Nov-17 21:05:13

Thank you all.

Anniebach Sat 11-Nov-17 21:05:31

Niggly x

cornergran Sat 11-Nov-17 21:41:13

I hope you can rest tonight, annie. X

JoyBloggs Sat 11-Nov-17 21:49:02

Still thinking of you lots, Annie

icanhandthemback Sat 11-Nov-17 21:54:32

Annie, I have only just read this post and my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss and that your family cannot find it in their hearts to reach out to you at this terrible time. People find it very difficult to understand mental health problems and don't always realise how much their lack of understanding can hurt. I'd have done exactly the same as you but probably with less restraint!
No doubt you will have a long, hard road ahead of you on the way to healing but if letting it all out on here helps, please look to us for support.

nanaK54 Sat 11-Nov-17 22:48:35

Wishing you a peaceful night

Crafting Sun 12-Nov-17 05:47:12

Still here with you annie. Hope you are sleeping tonight.

NotAGran55 Sun 12-Nov-17 06:14:13

You and your family are in my prayers Annie . I can't imagine the pain you are in x

M0nica Sun 12-Nov-17 06:41:51

I too have only just discovered this thread. Annie, all my sympathy at this dreadful time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

kittylester Sun 12-Nov-17 08:15:52

Morning Annie, how are you today? I hope you slept a bit! brew

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