Unexpected emotions

It’s the unexpected I would think maw. Be good to yourself, give Hattie an extra cuddle, Sending love and hugs.

And one from me to let you know I'm thinking of you

It's little things that can suddenly bring back all the pain of loss.

And a hug from me maw. It's stirring up memories for you. Be gentle with yourself.

Grief has so many layers and facets. Things can just creep up and floor us unexpectedly, usually just when we thing we’re doing fine, we’ll as fine as we can be. More from me x

It's still early days Maw and you're still experiencing "first events" that aren't anticipated, but just knock the ground from under you when they occur. You have lots of so I'll offer you a with me.

Our family grave is beside the path leading to the Church door , lots of people visit graves every Sunday after Mass , I can't bring myself to do more than glance at it of a Sunday , but don't feel as bad visiting to tidy on a quiet weekday

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oops, note to self... always remember to preview before posting!
thing = think
we’ll = well

Grief jumps out and hits you at the oddest times ,it can be a song or a piece of clothing or even just hearing a name in passing .the loss is always there. It doesn't go away we only learn to live with it.I hope you find peace in the coming days ,it will take time to process this grief and file it away.Until the next time.It becomes easier to do after time.

It is the unexpected which can knock us for six

Be kind to yourself x

Hugs Maw x

Thinking of you Maw ?

I wish I could say somthing helpful but know it’s impossible. I just want you to know that I’m sitting here thinking of you. ((((hug)))))

(((hugs)))

Thinking of you Maw x

from too xx

Such random things remind us of our loved ones Maw but also sometimes happy memories as well.
Thinking of you

It is all about love, Maw. Sometimes a good cry can be just what is needed. Be kind to yourself today. ???

???? Grief is the price we pay for loving. Just when you think you are doing ok, something comes along and you feel as if you are back to square one in the grieving process. It can be a smell, a song, or just a moment!

Sending you love and hugs, hoping you will find a little thing today to make you smile.

There’s nothing I can say that hasn’t been said, sometimes things just give you a jolt, some days, even the happy good things can hurt. Thinking of you, and sending hugs, tea, and a big slice of cheesecake, never fails to make me feel better.

Thinking of you Maw