not just widows etc.. I have my husband here physically, but he rarely wants to go anywhere, I had my beloved dog, she died, and it was so hard to go walkies on my own, first I went out when it was dark,, nearly 2 years now, and I can feel the tears rising as I "talk" about it.. I just don`t understand these feelings,,
anyway, then I went walkies wearing dark glasses, so if the tears welled, I thought no one could see. fortunately never met many people I know,, so I got through that stage, now I can go walkies , sometimes without glasses! LOL
I hate sympathy, I joined the local church, and so many ladies share their pain,,, I can`t ... but so helps me coming here.
I think we have to try and bite the bullet... shopping? do that on my own now.. actually I prefer , mostly, going shopping on my own, I am fortunate in having met a lady at the church, couple of years older than me, widow, and she seems to be understanding where I am at... I get to give her a lift in my car... she can`t walk much.. so it is a matter of trying to beat these feelings.. after all that is all they are...
good thoughts and prayers for you ann