I'm so sorry that you have had to go through this Grandmax5, and such a shock for you to have found him and such an unexpected death of your much loved son. Time heals grief, and the entire grieving process is documented amongst the medical profession to take around 5 years, so you are still going through the fairly early stages at the moment, and it's quite normal to still feel the way you do at the two year stage, it will become easier given time. I lost my DD after a two year battle with breast cancer 5years ago, but it wasn't a big shock like you suffered, as her death was expected in the end, and we had several months where we followed her' bucket list' and did all the things she ever wanted to do together before it was too late. She was just 36yrs old when she died, and had been married for 3years. She may be gone physically form our lives, but nothing or no one can ever take away the memories we have of her, and sometimes little things happen that remind me that she still lives on within us all, and my other 4 daughters have experienced these feelings too. If ever you need to talk to someone who has been through this, then I'm happy for you to contact me through PM on here, and l will try and help if l can.