Where to dispose of ashes.

I have Mum’s ashes (in the space under my bed). When she died 23 years ago Dad gave me explicit instructions on where they should be scattered, together with Dad’s when his time came.
Then he remarried, and the woodland walk was developed into a housing estate..... When my sister died Dad asked if I would scatter mum’s ashes with her, but my brother in law went off quietly to scatter sis in a place that they loved and didn’t tell me for ages.
Dad died and his widow requested that he he be left at the crem - which was just a field when Mum died!
So it looks like she’s waiting for me. I live a long way from where I was brought up so she doesn’t know this area very well but at least she won’t be alone.

A friend left money in her will to be made into fireworks, she was sent up into the sky on a frosty evening in the grounds of a minor stately home, accompanied by the Handel, the Music for the Royal Fireworks!