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Where to dispose of ashes.

(52 Posts)
phoenix Wed 02-Dec-20 14:55:46

Is there a garden of remembrance at the crematorium?

You could arrange to have them interred together there, plant a rose or tree, have a plaque or whatever?

My grandparents ashes were surreptitiously sprinkled by a bench where they used to meet up in their courting days!

Nellsmum Wed 02-Dec-20 14:50:16

When my father died in 2004 Mum kept his ashes and would shout at them if anything went wrong. Then when she moved in with my sister they went with her. Now Mum has died and I have her ashes. There is no family grave and my father wasn't particularly fond of graveyards. No family home or garden. Any ideas on what to do with the ashes? I would like them to be together but I don't think my sister is too fussed.