Thinking of everyone missing a certain someone in their lives today. DH died three years ago. We would all have been going out for lunch, so there is a big gap here.
I know what you mean travels they say it's the first of all these events which upset you and it's a sadness which you carry within you pretty much most of the time, while smiling on the outside. Time rubs off the rough edges and looking for the small consolations help.
Last Sunday would have been our wedding anniversary, and this Sunday is Father's day. Next month would have been his birthday, in August I have a 40th birthday to get through. Reminders that he is no longer around to share with even though he wasn't a very social person and didnt really enjoy 'fuss and bother' as he called it, he was still here.