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Two deaths in a month

(40 Posts)
Janburry Mon 10-Oct-22 16:01:26

My husband passed away after 7 years of poor health and being diagnosed with another tumour earlier in the year, before l had chance to come to terms with losing him, my daughter, who was battling stage 4 breast cancer for the last two years, went downhill after complications with chemo and her liver, suddenly passed away leaving husband, teenage daughter and 5 year old son, I'm devastated as is the whole family, as her daughter sobbed when she passed, it's so f##king unfair she was an amazing woman and its not right. ?

Blossoming Mon 10-Oct-22 16:04:49

How dreadful for you and your family Janburry my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Grandmadinosaur Mon 10-Oct-22 16:09:31

What an awful time you are having. Yes life does seem so unfair. Sending condolences to you all. My heart goes out to you and those dear children. ?

cornergran Mon 10-Oct-22 16:09:39

I’m so sorry janburry. What a sad time for you and your family. My condolences.

25Avalon Mon 10-Oct-22 16:14:09

Sometimes Janburry life is a complete bummer. You have my heartfelt sympathies at this awfully sad time. flowers

Witzend Mon 10-Oct-22 16:15:06

I’m so sorry, Janburry, how terribly sad for you all. ?

BlueBelle Mon 10-Oct-22 16:15:13

Oh dear Janburry what can I say Life can be so unfair and so cruel I can only tell you how sorry I am and send you a hug ??

LilyoftheValley Mon 10-Oct-22 16:15:27

My word, what an awful time. So much grief in a short time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Yammy Mon 10-Oct-22 16:17:40

A terrible time for all the family. My condolences.flowers

LauraNorderr Mon 10-Oct-22 16:18:17

Janburry, I’m so very sorry, my heart goes out to you. I can’t begin to imagine your pain and I agree, it really isn’t fair. flowers
Please keep posting, there are so many on here who have gone through their own tragedy and will help you with their usual generosity.

crazyH Mon 10-Oct-22 16:26:45

Janburry - I can’t begin to imagine what you are going through. I have just said a little prayer for you - I hope you find the strength from Somewhere flowers

silverlining48 Mon 10-Oct-22 16:36:47

Janburry There are no words that will help
but I send you a gentle hug. There are those on here who have suffered losses such as yours. You are not alone. I am so very sorry x

ginny Mon 10-Oct-22 17:09:41

So sad for you.?

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 10-Oct-22 17:12:33

January, you are having a terrible time. I pray that you can find some peace. Sending you love.

hulahoop Mon 10-Oct-22 17:14:27

Sending virtual hugs Janberrywhat a horrid unbelievable time you and your family are having.

nanaK54 Mon 10-Oct-22 17:19:34

Sending kindest thoughts to you flowers

Concordia Mon 10-Oct-22 17:34:13

Sending you love and sympathy, Janburry. You must be feeling like the bottom has dropped out of your world but I hope that you and your son in law and grandchildren can continue to love and support each other throughout this horrible time.

V3ra Mon 10-Oct-22 17:40:27

Janburry how awful for you all. You have every right to swear and be angry.
I'm so sorry xx

JaneJudge Mon 10-Oct-22 17:45:53

Janberry, I'm so sorry sad flowers life just isn't fair.

Fleurpepper Mon 10-Oct-22 17:55:14

Just can't find the words- how so very tough for you all. I am so sorry.

dogsmother Mon 10-Oct-22 19:26:19

Oh no, so very sad, yes sometimes life is very cruel and seems like you have got a pretty poor hand at the moment.
Gentle hugs for you and your family ?

Chrissielou Mon 10-Oct-22 19:32:56

Janburry, there are just no words, I'm so sorry for the distress and grief you must feel. My thoughts are with you.

dragonfly46 Mon 10-Oct-22 19:35:23

Janburry what can I say? Life can be so cruel. Sending you gentle hugs.

Esmay Mon 10-Oct-22 19:36:06

Hi Janburry ,
How devastating .
Love to and prayers for you .

SueDonim Mon 10-Oct-22 19:39:55

I’m so sorry, Janburry, those are terrible losses to bear. flowers