is anybody out there?

It’s early days, even if it wasn’t entirely unexpected , losing someone is still a shock.
We are here if you need a bit of support, look after yourself,

so gracious..thank you

thank everyone..so nice and kind...iwill learn to navigate this site..much needed

Oh..i should've used quote instead of reply...anyway all your kindness is truly appreciated

No, you’ve replied to everyone in one go, that’s fine.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear husband, lookafter yourself.

So sorry for your loss Skeeter just tiny steps a minute at a time,big 🤗 for you.

So sorry Skeeter

Good afternoon Skeeter. Devasting for you. Very early days. Very early. Numbness and sadness will be your friend for some time. Take time to be however you want to be. Sending condolences across the miles to you.

Sad news Skeeter and it will take a while to come to terms but I wish you well

Condolences Skeeter. I am glad you have reached out in your sadness. Keep on reading and joining in if you feel like it.

Condolences Skeeter take care of yourself such early days

Skeeter thinking of you..

So very sorry look after yourself if you need support you know where to come x

Condolences, Skeeter. Thinking of you

No words, just sending a hug.

My sympathies. You're not alone. There are still lots of lovely people around. Ask for help and you'll get it.

Sending you a virtual (((hug))) Skeeter 🌸

Skeeter so sorry for you. It's important you look after yourself you won't want to eat but you must and drink and make sure you take any medication you are on. Life doesn't feel real and you can't see a way forward. But you need to keep your body strong. As you are going to have to make a lot of decisions in a short time period. Your grief is overwhelming and the last thing you want to think about paperwork but unfortunately it has to be done. I hope you have family support.

Talk out loud to your husband everyday I promise it helps . Scream ,shout,swear hit a pillow just don't hold your feelings in . I did that and the only person I hurt was me. But I was 45 at the time and thought I had to be brave I was a fool. I am now 65.

Your husband wouldn't want you to be brave and he would want you to look after yourself. Love never dies even when the person you love dies. In fact I love my husband more than ever . And so glad I was loved and loved in return. As your husband loved you and you loved him.🌹

So sorry for your loss Skeeter I hope you are not sitting alone this evening if you are we are all thinking of you.

Condolences Skeeter look forward to seeing you on the Good Morning thread, Mike opens it around 5.30-6am.

Just joining all the others sending warmest sympathy. I know what it's like. In one month it will be the first anniversary of my beloved DH's death. Lean on friends and family, accept any help offered. And tell us about it if you want to.

Sincere condolences Skeeter. My husband died 10 months ago. Sending love to you.

So sorry for your loss. I Hope you find some friendship here on GN. As others have said, the daily Good Morning thread is a great place to start.

Skeeter

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xx

There's usually a few night-owls around in the small hours if you need to chat.

I join the others in offering condolences for your so recent sad loss.