My neighbor has died

I'd stand outside.
It's just a mark of respect for the ending of someone's life, and I don't think it seems nosy.

Personally, I'd stay inside unless I'd had a relationship with them. It's a lovely gesture to offer respect but given the time frame, it could possibly be misconstrued.

I think standing outside with your head bowed is a respectful gesture.

I agree, such a respectful thing to do

I'm sure if you do what feels right for you, then it will be ok.

Nannashirlz, either - whatever you feel comfortable doing, as I'm sure the family won't have expectations.

My daughters funeral is mostly a blur to me, but I can remember being very touched to see people around my neighbourhood standing outside their homes.

On our small development, we all stand outside and applaud (I know some don’t agree with that) as the cortège passes.
I found it a very kind gesture when DH died during Covid.

I really dislike the applauding that seems to happen at funerals now.

Do stand outside , even though the family don't know you they will definitely appreciate the gesture and
the respect you give. They will remember.

Yes, if you stand outside please don't be the only one applauding, as that could be misconstrued!

Yes indeed I would stand outside. We found it comforting when our parents died but no applauding ever at a funeral!

A lovely lady died some months ago on our street and most of the neighbours were at the end of their drives as the hearse departed. Some hadn't known her for very long at all but they still paid their respects.

I’ve never actually heard of applauding at a funeral that actually makes me feel uncomfortable . Is this a new thing?

Everything seems to warrant a round of applause these days.

Was it Diana's funeral that first saw people spontaneously clap as the coffin went by?

I’d stay indoors myself, and wouldn’t dream of applauding. Yes, it does seem to be a recent thing. Most odd.

It’s not that new Heaven.
Most think it started at Diana, POW’s funeral.
There was lots of applause from the crowds, as the late Queen’s hearse passed by.

Crossed post MissA

Well, I suppose the queen may have been an exception, deserving of a,show of appreciation for her long service to the country.

Years ago you just drew the curtains. Much easier.

25Avalon

Years ago you just drew the curtains. Much easier.

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I can remember my mum drawing the curtains and threatening all sorts if anyone dared touch them.

Go outside, it’s a dignified way of showing respect for the person who died and their loved ones. I’ll always remember funerals I’ve been to in Ireland, absolutely everybody stops still and bows their head as the funeral procession goes through streets, those wearing hats remove them, it’s an incredibly touching and respectful gesture.

One of the few things I remember about my mum's funeral is that the gardener at the crematorium bowed his head as the hearse went past. So, yes - I would stand outside with your head bowed.