November book club

d4dsquared

Really enjoyed it & felt interested, involved, exasperated and irritated by the characters in turn. Angela's condition was new to me and made me think about the role of fantasy and daydreams in our lives - is it healthy or unhealthy, and to what degree should we'indulge'? Joan was brilliant. We'd all like to have a friend like her. I wonder how her own family would have felt though. I thought Ig was interesting too. Had he inherited his mother's rich fantasy life? Was it one of the down sides of growing up in such an isolated location? How would he cope with the transition at the end? This book was a real page-turner. I will look out for her books in future.

Hello d4dsquared and thanks for your message and questions, I’m very glad to hear you enjoyed Hello from the Gillespies. I love to create fictional families that are as real as possible, so yes indeed, they are often exasperating and irritating!

I’m very happy you enjoyed the character Joan too. I have been lucky in my life to have older women as friends who have been as important to me as Joan was to Angela – a great support, a listening ear and someone who talks straight just when you need it.

Re the role of fantasy in our lives – I did a lot of research into the subject, via books and articles as well as via conversations, and I came away with the firm belief that is it not only very common but also – mostly – very healthy. Modern life moves so fast, we all have heads filled with to-do lists, worries, anxieties – anything that gives our minds some respite is – generally – a positive thing.

Re Ig – yes, I think he has inherited his very active and fertile imagination from his mother. I feel his imaginary friend is a positive, not a negative. All the research I did on the subject, and my own experience of it (my little brother had an imaginary friend when he was around Ig’s age) shows that children with imaginary friends are often very bright and that there is nothing for parents to worry about. In regards to what will happen next to Ig - I feel sure he will flourish in his new school in Adelaide and I am also sure he will love every moment of his travels with his family.

inishowen

Thank you, I am loving the book. I have about 6 pages to finish it. I don't do round robins myself, not would I care to read them. They are all about showing off! Is the author Irish or Australian? I'm guessing Irish, but has lived in Australia. I found the book to be a real page turner and it's kept me reading late into the night.

Hello Inishowen, thanks for your comment – I’m so glad to hear Hello from the Gillespies kept you up late reading. I am Australian-born of Irish-descent (my great-grandparents on both sides were from County Clare) and have been moving back and forth between Ireland and Australia with my Irish husband for the past 24 years, almost half my life. I have dual Irish and Australian citizenship, so I’m sure I can officially describe myself as Irish-Australian!

Grannybug

A great choice of book in the run up to Christmas and I enjoyed reading about the noisy opinionated and often immature members of this family. What an amazing friend Joan was ! Stepping into the breach on almost every occasion. My question for the author is how did she discover the medical condition experienced by Angela ?
Thank you gransnet for a seasonal read.

Thanks for your question, Grannybug. While plotting Hello from the Gillespies, I knew I wanted to ‘remove’ Angela from her family for a brief time, to see how they coped without her. At first I explored the possibility of her being in a coma after her accident. But I found I missed her, so I thought about a period of amnesia instead, a common occurrence after a head injury like the one Angela receives. While researching the many different forms of amnesia, I came across a number of references to the condition known as confabulation. I then met a terrific Dublin neurologist who generously gave me hours of her time and expertise, explaining it to me in more detail. That said, any errors are mine, not hers.

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I was so pleased and excited to receive my free copy of 'Hello from the Gillespies' as I have heard about the book from different sources including coverage on radio 4 woman's hour. I started reading as soon as book arrived in order to upload info prior to end of November.
I really enjoyed the description of life in outback Australia - I feel the book has provided a real insight into the mixture of beauty and isolation experienced by families living there. I am not sure that I was able to connect with the Angela because I found her escapism into a fantasy world slightly annoying and unbelievable. I fully understand children having imaginary friends - particularly when isolated but not adults. However this is probably just me - I would be very interested for the author to talk about her inspiration for the character. The concept for the book is brilliant - it would have been good to hear more about some of the people who received the letter and if it made them more honest in their future round Robbin letters.

Hello Décor, thanks for your comment, I’m very glad you enjoyed the outback Australian setting. Angela’s character emerged from many conversations with and observations of women I know in their mid-fifties, who are at the stage of their lives where their children are (almost) reared, they have had a long marriage, and they are now beginning to reflect on their lives. Are they where they want to be? Did they make the right decisions along the way? What might have been different, if they had chosen another path earlier in life? Angela’s fantasy life is an extension of those thoughts – she is so concerned about her deteriorating relationship with her husband, that imagining a different path for herself gives her comfort and distraction. I’ve been touched and surprised by the number of emails I’ve received from readers around the world who tell me they too have found solace in elaborate fantasy lives.

Rosannie

I enjoyed this book, perfect for this time of year when I love to relax with a 'feel good' book.

My question is a simple one - when is your next book due to be published and where is it located?

oznan

I absolutely loved this book-the characters are easy to relate to,with their common bond being the love for their family,come what may.I think the idea of "getting it all off your chest" as Angela does in her letter,is one that we could all imagine doing.The consequences for the Gillespies are life changing and each family member deals with it in their own way.For Angela and Nick,the road is a rocky one but it eventually brings them back together,happily planning a new future.

My only question for Monica McInerney is when's your next book coming?

Hello Rosannie/Oznan – I’m in the early stages of my next book and still deciding on the different locations. It’s one of my favourite parts of writing novels – I often feel like a film location scout. My previous ten novels have been set in Ireland, Australia, the UK, New Zealand, Italy, even Antarctica (you can read more about them on my website, www.monicamcinerney.com.) Writing is a wonderful way to travel without leaving my desk.

nonnanna

Well, Monica McInerney - which one of the characters is most like you?

Hello again Nonnanna – there are aspects of me in all the characters, I’m sure. I worry as much as Angela, I’m inclined to put my foot in my mouth like Genevieve, I like my food as much as Victoria does… But that said, they are all fictional creations.

nonnanna

I loved the book, I've passed it on to my cousin with a recommendation for her book club. Nice and easy because there's reading group questions at the end of the story.
The descriptive details in Monica's writing are just amazing.
Personally, I wanted to slap all of the children- they are so needy. I guess that comes from an isolated existence in the outback and a total dependency on each other. As does the need to escape and a rather scary naivety. Has anyone got any experience of this closed unit? Perhaps it's similar in boarding school or on Forces bases maybe.

Thanks again Gransnet and Monica McInerney, I shall be looking out for more of your books.

Hello Nonnanna. I’m so glad you enjoyed the descriptive details. And yes, I felt like slapping the children myself sometimes. I wanted to explore what happens when independent adults return home to live due to unexpected circumstances, and how they very often revert to childhood patterns of behavior – immaturity, squabbling, an over-reliance on their parents. I certainly think all of those attributes were heightened by the Gillespies’ isolation.

geri

I'd like to ask Monica does she ever write or receive Xmas round robin letters herself?

Crow

Thank you for Hello from The Gillespies. I loved it and read it in two days, staying up very late each night.
It is a great story and catches one in right away until the end.
Has Monica McInerney ever written such a Christmas letter I wonder?

eGJ

Do YOU send Round Robin letters at Christmas Monica? If so is yours going to be a real run down of your year or a boast?

Hello again Geri and hello Crow and EgJ. When I was a child, my parents used to receive quite a lot of round robin letters, and I remember being fascinated by these descriptions of perfect marriages, well-behaved high-achieving children and idyllic lives, especially when I looked around at my chaotic family of nine. One year we received a letter that was so boastful my sister and I were compelled to write our own parody version. We called it The McInerney Report and filled it with extravagant details of our wildly successful lives, our exotic international travel, our selfless charity work… Mum banned us from sending it outside the family, but we all enjoyed writing and reading it so much it became a family Christmas tradition for the next ten years.

I wrote an article about it which appeared on the Waterstones blog: www.waterstones.com/blog/2014/11/in-defence-of-christmas-letters/#more-92341

Purpledaffodil

I got my copy of Hello from the Gillespies on Saturday and finished it in the wee small hours of Sunday morning. Thoroughly enjoyed reading it and the interesting and unexpected twists which I will not spoil for others. I will certainly look out for this author, it is always good to find someone new whose work you enjoy. I should like to ask her which of the three countries she depicts that she most enjoys? Didn't seem to be any autobiographical details included which makes it hard to second guess.

Hello Purpledaffodil, thanks for your question. I grew up in South Australia, have been moving back and forth between Ireland and Australia with my Irish husband for the past 24 years and have also travelled often to the UK. I love writing about all three countries, but I did particularly enjoy writing about outback South Australia in Hello from the Gillespies. It was a cold and frosty Irish winter while I was writing the outback scenes, so it was very nice to imagine myself under big blue skies and bright sunshine.

If you would like to read more about my background, please do visit www.monicamcinerney.com or follow me on Facebook at www.facebook.com/monicamcinerneyauthor

geri

Just received my copy of Hello from the Gillespies this morning, and really looking forward to getting started.
I have several friends who send round robin letters every Christmas, and to be honest, I just skim over them and then bin them. Maybe it would be kinder to say something, or would that offend, hard to know, what do others think?

Hello Geri. I must confess I’m a big fan of Christmas round robin letters, no matter how boastful or outlandish they are. I love the glimpse they give me into other people’s lives and families. From my experience, though, the senders don’t expect any real response to them, so don’t feel guilty about binning or skimming them!