I've suffered from a really painful shoulder since the summer. As it isn't visible my family forget about it. I'm asked to babysit and the little one, who I adore, wants me to carry him. Yesterday hubby and I were taking bottles to the bottle bank. he said, "it's your turn". I asked if I should hold the bag of bottles with my bad arm, and throw the bottles with the good arm, or the other way round. He looked as if he didn't know what I was talking about. I have told him time and time again I'm in agony. I can't put my bra on, can't make the bed, can't wash my hair etc., Rant over, I needed to get it off my chest.