I think I am losing her.

Loosing a sister is agony, to watch her leaving you slowly first in mind is prolonged agony.

All I can do is send

I'm so sorry that this has happened. It's always sad, especially when the person has led a good and active life. It happened to my FiL who had always been involved in work, church etc. He sometimes talked 'rubbish', often unkind and usually when he had a urine infection (apparently women tend to get them more than men).
I put together some photos of things we'd all done - like holidays - and took them when I visited. When we talked about them he could remember the fun and laughs we'd had and we both felt cheered as a result.

Life is so unfair. Stay strong for your sister and keep loving her whatever

PECS has said everything for me. So sorry

? So hard to lose a loved one before their body lets them go xx You have loved her and cared for her well. She has had a good life. It is unfair that she cannot have a peaceful end ?

I am so sorry for your heartache Milly. Your sister has had good jobs, worked hard all her life and then looked after your mother. It seems so cruel that she is now so poorly. I can tell you have a strong bond between the two of you. The sister you knew is disappearing and mental health takes away the person we love, but she is still there Milly, when she looks for you on her phone she is thinking about you.

I am so sorry for all you are going through and send you (((hugs))) and .

It’s very sad for you millymouge. A big hug.