I’m going to be very honest and am hoping for some frank advice.
My Mum is 87, lives alone in a beautiful 2 bed council bungalow with wet room.
She is struggling with her memory and I have tried to help as much as I can whilst working full time and usual family chores but am now being called out regularly, early hours, day time and nights.
When I get to Mums she’s in a panicky state but calms very quickly.
I got her a cleaner as she struggles with heavy cleaning but she refused to let her in as “my daughter can do it” she won’t cook, even microwaving is a no.
What are my next moves? Anyone survived a similar situation
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