Yes that would be the best scenario BlueBelle and it’s what I pray for. Mum got up earlier today and funny enough I said to DH it’s easier when she stays in bed, she has been difficult today, she wants to die and I’ve to buy a gun and she’ll shoot herself 🙄 that’s to save me going to prison apparently.
I’m pleased you’ve found this thread comforting coralll there’s quite a few of us struggling with parents, whilst still looking after grandchildren and husbands. Think they call us the sandwich generation.
Your doing really well having your Father live with you , I know I couldn’t do it, I’m far too anxious, good job we’re all different. Take care of yourself too.
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