A really new predicament for me, having nursed my husband for over four years but now accepted, begrudgingly, one visit a day for a Carer's agency (Marie Curie supported) to come and wash him and cream him just once a day. I totally accept that but quite honestly their standards, against my own, full down. They seem unable to make a bed without any forethought of how to first remove the bed rails first and then tuck in all the bedding. I seem to be forever cleaning up after them after they have left, the longest they have been here is 12 minutes. Today I caught a new one standing at the bathroom sink supposedly filling the bowl for his bed wash, scrolling lazily through her phone. But what really upsets me, and perhaps I am being a little petty about it, that they all seem to want to use the bathroom for themselves before they leave (male & female) without ever having the courtesy to ask if I would mind first.
Now two weeks into this regime with differing carers, two visit at a time, I discover they then sit in their vehicles in the carpark for another 30 minutes no doubt being paid to do this.
Please, how do I deal with this, as they are being invited into our home and property?
