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MoonStone93 Sun 10-Nov-24 12:07:01

In honour of my father I never miss the Remembrance Sunday Service at the cenotaph. Today has been no exception but as I watched I noticed one of our politicians, I believe he was there on behalf of the SNP, without a "programme" and who did not join in with any of the hymns, prayers or the national anthem.
I am a firm believer that how people conduct themselves and what they believe in is their business but this man looked like he didn't want to be there and his behaviour was not in the spirit of the occasion. Today's gathering, as always, is to respect and remember our forebears. This man looked churlish and disrespectful. I wish he'd stayed at home and allowed someone who really did want to pay their respects attend in his place.

Oreo Mon 11-Nov-24 08:04:08

OldFrill

It's not often. I'm on the side of the SNP but the so called Christian sisterhood on this thread is vile. Christianity does not own Remembrance. Nearly half of Scotland wants independence and the way some are demanding they sing hymns and GSTK it's no wonder. How DARE anyone demand that someone compromise their principles, be hypocritical and sing songs because it confirms to their narrow minded religions view. That's Christianity is it? No wonder congregations are waning and the churches are being converted into housing (actually one near here is being converted into a mosque).
Last year and this year Stephen Flynn has been heavily criticised for standing by his principles. Show done human decency, it's Remembrance not bitchfest.
Some remarks made to me on here are incredibly incredibly hurtful.

Oh dear, hurt feelings?
I expect the other half of Scotland that doesn’t want independence may be feeling that way too.
Christian sisterhood, what are you on about? He damn well should be heavily criticised for attending but not joining in as a leader representing Scotland.Next time send somebody else.

Iam64 Mon 11-Nov-24 08:22:04

Thanks RosiesMaw for the poem. Enough said

ginny Mon 11-Nov-24 08:38:31

I attended the local Rememberance service.
I did not sing or say the prayers.
I was there to honour the men and women who served and or gave their lives not a God who I don’t believe in.
I don’t see anything disrespectful in that.

Oreo Mon 11-Nov-24 08:44:35

ginny you are a private person not the leader of a political party representing everyone in Scotland.See the difference?

paddyann54 Mon 11-Nov-24 09:13:26

Strange thing to be offended at….I am much more offended by the king,his son and his ssister wearing fancy dress uniforms of a rank they NEVER ATTAINED the two men did minimal serviceable and left as junior officers and even that was due to their birth…and Anne well she never served at all yet like her brother and nephew she is adorned/ plastered with medals
What an insult to the people who fought for their country to earn a medal and the dead ….who never came home.They weren’t given the option of fancy dress and a chest full of medals!! Yet you find a young man not singing a problem. I think the problem is the mindset of many on here that Royals are some kind of gods who must be worshipped whatever they do ,including adultery,sex abuse ,and scamming charities.
I,m glad my moral standards are much higher than that!!

Oreo Mon 11-Nov-24 09:20:07

😂
It’s nothing to do with Royals it’s to do with representing Scotland at the Cenotaph .What young man? Is Flynn really young?

MissInterpreted Mon 11-Nov-24 09:21:31

Remembrance isn't a competition. Attending a service and singing the hymns and the national anthem and saying the prayers doesn't make you any better than someone who stood there silently and paying their respects in their own way. It's not a competition.

love0c Mon 11-Nov-24 09:22:33

Childish behaviour in the extreme.

Oreo Mon 11-Nov-24 09:24:01

MissInterpreted

Remembrance isn't a competition. Attending a service and singing the hymns and the national anthem and saying the prayers doesn't make you any better than someone who stood there silently and paying their respects in their own way. It's not a competition.

Is there actually anyone who understands the difference between a private individual and a political leader representing the Scottish people at the Cenotaph service?
Anyone?

MissInterpreted Mon 11-Nov-24 09:29:18

Patronising, much?

Oreo Mon 11-Nov-24 09:31:11

Well you didn’t seem to understand or you wouldn’t have commented in the way you did.

ginny Mon 11-Nov-24 09:34:04

Yes, he was representing the Scottish people as a political leader not a religious one.

Oreo Mon 11-Nov-24 09:53:25

You need to be religious to join in with God Save The King and anything else at the Cenotaph, why I never knew that!

MissInterpreted Mon 11-Nov-24 09:58:20

Are his constituents bothered? Are the Scottish people bothered? Would some people be getting their knickers in such a twist about this if he was of a different religious persuasion, for example - or is it just a convenient excuse to have a go at the Scots? Like I say, Remembrance isn't a competition. In my opinion, he conducted himself with dignity and that's all that matters. It's about remembering and paying respects to those who served and those who paid the ultimate sacrifice.

Allira Mon 11-Nov-24 10:02:08

Oreo

MissInterpreted

Remembrance isn't a competition. Attending a service and singing the hymns and the national anthem and saying the prayers doesn't make you any better than someone who stood there silently and paying their respects in their own way. It's not a competition.

Is there actually anyone who understands the difference between a private individual and a political leader representing the Scottish people at the Cenotaph service?
Anyone?

Many of us, I think Oreo.

There is a time and a place for personal political beliefs, but this was neither for a representative of all the Scottish people.

ginny Mon 11-Nov-24 10:09:09

Well I suppose one could sing praises to and ask help from someone / something one does not belive in . To me it would be somewhat hypocritical.
However respect .for the fallen and those who have and are still stands

Allira Mon 11-Nov-24 10:16:30

It was fine for Flynn to swear the Oath of Allegiance when it suited him:

Members of both Houses of Parliament are required by law to take an oath of allegiance to the Crown.

MPs cannot take their seat, speak in debates, vote or receive a salary until taking the oath or affirmation. They could also be fined £500 and have their seat declared vacant “as if they were dead” if they attempted to do so.

RosiesMaw2 Mon 11-Nov-24 10:40:29

OldFrill

It's not often. I'm on the side of the SNP but the so called Christian sisterhood on this thread is vile. Christianity does not own Remembrance. Nearly half of Scotland wants independence and the way some are demanding they sing hymns and GSTK it's no wonder. How DARE anyone demand that someone compromise their principles, be hypocritical and sing songs because it confirms to their narrow minded religions view. That's Christianity is it? No wonder congregations are waning and the churches are being converted into housing (actually one near here is being converted into a mosque).
Last year and this year Stephen Flynn has been heavily criticised for standing by his principles. Show done human decency, it's Remembrance not bitchfest.
Some remarks made to me on here are incredibly incredibly hurtful.

It's not often. I'm on the side of the SNP but the so called Christian sisterhood on this thread is vile
Especially this.
Stephen Flynn was at the Cenotaph as the leader of the SNP and de facto representative of Scotland. His obvious and crass “statement” will have been totally at variance with Remembrance Sunday parades the length and breadth of Scotland. We’d have been ashamed in the Borders.
Nobody is demanding nearly half of Scotland sing hymns or GSTK or indeed confirm their narrow minded religious views Although it would not surprise me if nearly half ,”over half” or any other fraction you care to come up with, have no problem with hymns, metrical psalms or “songs” in a similar context.
As for referring to a bitchfest , it merely confirms my growing disillusion with what Gransnet seems to have become since I first joined 13 years ago, enjoying the stimulating discussion, good humour, camaraderie, wit and wisdom.
Those days are gone.

MissInterpreted Mon 11-Nov-24 10:43:54

Allira

It was fine for Flynn to swear the Oath of Allegiance when it suited him:

Members of both Houses of Parliament are required by law to take an oath of allegiance to the Crown.

MPs cannot take their seat, speak in debates, vote or receive a salary until taking the oath or affirmation. They could also be fined £500 and have their seat declared vacant “as if they were dead” if they attempted to do so.

And yet a number of MP have made a 'statement' of their own while taking the oath - not all of them Scottish, by the way.

Allira Mon 11-Nov-24 10:46:58

Lest we forget:

It is Remembrance Day today.

ronib Mon 11-Nov-24 10:47:47

A friend and I were discussing Remembrance Day yesterday and she was of the opinion that we were glorifying war and her sympathies lay with all the very young men mostly who lost their lives far too soon.
What is aggrieving me is the continued loss of young lives wherever the conflict. Sometimes I wonder if this is the way population growth is controlled? It feels so very wrong.

madalene Mon 11-Nov-24 10:48:43

To me SF appeared to be making a point. I’m not sure that Rememberance Day is the time to make a point, but he did, and there it is. Perhaps the SNP could send someone else next year, who doesn’t feel the need to make a point. Rememberance isn’t about individuals, it’s about those who gave their service in many wars. Service men and women have to swear allegiance to the crown, note not to the government of the day, but along with many other professions, such as police and judges and King’s Counsel they swear their allegiance to the king and all his successors. Some of these people maybe republicans but they still swear their allegiance because they believe in the office and the role they are going to play. In fact, as mentioned, SF will have had to do this in order to take his seat in Parliament. Why did he not make a stand then?

With regard to the members of the royal family wearing military uniforms of high rank, I thought we all understood that they are simply figureheads for those organisations. I thought we all knew and understood that, but maybe not. They are laying wreaths on behalf of the nation and the organisations whose uniforms they wear. Like it or not, Charles is our figurehead. We would have to have a figurehead even if we were a Republic. We can’t lay a wreath at the Cenotaph and so he does it for us. We can wear a poppy, or lay a weath, or place a cross, at a local Cenotaph. I’ve stuck my poppy in my window because the new recyclable ones aren’t easy to pin.

madalene Mon 11-Nov-24 10:50:11

I’m watching the commemorations on television now.

Allira Mon 11-Nov-24 10:51:08

ronib

A friend and I were discussing Remembrance Day yesterday and she was of the opinion that we were glorifying war and her sympathies lay with all the very young men mostly who lost their lives far too soon.
What is aggrieving me is the continued loss of young lives wherever the conflict. Sometimes I wonder if this is the way population growth is controlled? It feels so very wrong.

Yes, unfortunately there are people who have the same simplistic, erroneous view as your friend.
It is very sad.

ronib Mon 11-Nov-24 10:53:03

Allira can you give me any counter arguments? Is it too simple?