Adoption had been discussed briefly on one or two other threads and I wonder if it deserves a thread of its own. I've been left feeling that those of us who adopted (in my case 35 and 33 years ago) are sometimes seen as the least important part of the adoption process. It would be impossible to adopt without feeling enormous sympathy and gratitude to the brave girl who gives her child to be adopted, but just occasionally, after a few recent tv programmes, I've been left feeling either superfluous or even worse, like some sort of predatory child-snatcher! There must be so many different adoption experiences out there. Could we share them?
